• Hi! And welcome to my Are You Married to a Gay Man Test. I'll be using advanced logic and knowledge to determine whether you are married to or in a relationship with someone who is gay. This test is aimed at heterosexual females in relationships with seemingly heterosexual men. I have a little experience in this considering I was married to a wonderful man for 9 (yes, 9) years and he turned out to be gay. It came as a COMPLETE shock to me, but now he and his boyfriend are 2 of my best friends. Good luck...and if it turns out you are in a relationship with a 'mo e-mail me and i'll commiserate with you and give you pointers on handling the following: watching your ex make out with his new boyfriend, going to gay clubs with your ex, intruducing your new (hopefully) non-gay boyfriend to your ex and his boyfriend, telling everyone's parents, telling everyone's friends, telling everyone's priests and the "so, how is anal sex?" talk with your ex. So, sweet pea take this test and grab a hold of your relationship destiny...Better to be single when you're young and cute, right?