• Is you or Ain't you my grrrll? Since the whole thinking things through, drawing up plans, colored graphs and pie charts, weighing options, writing to advice columnists and consulting Oprah books ain't working out the way I hoped I will be using completely capricious and irrelevant data to find my perfect match. Later I'm gonna turn it all into a hit Hollywood film...all about the grrrll I fell head over heels for.