• Most think "hey give him something, preferably warm and moist, to stick it in and he's happy" but male sexual pleasure is actually far more complex. Many women feel that it is their man's duty to please her and he should just be happy he is being given the privelege. However, if more women realy tried to please men they would find that their partners not only become more serious about returning the favor but are also more faithful and romantic because they want to keep a good thing going.