• Maybe we're compatible and most likely we're not. But the real question we should be asking if whether you can put up with my insane Jewish mother for the long haul. People in my family live a long time, and as ironies go, despite her constant hypochondria I'd guess she's going to outlive us all. Keep in mind that all of these questions are based on real behavior that has already occurred, so you can count on a repeat performance for the future.