• What are the ingredients to a healthy relationship? Some may say trust. Or communication. Or sex. Which are all important, but how can you tell if you are in an unhealty relationship, and you youself are the one making it unhealty, by smothering the person, stalking the person, killing everyone of the opposite sex he/she talks to, etc? This test should be of some help figuring some of that out. But it won't fix your relationships. You may need shock therapy for that.