The Emotional Fitness Test

show him/her the correct way

keep it to youself and vent to your friends

re-fold the towels later

thank him/her

cry yourself to sleep

ask them a series of questions to fish out if they cheated

give them space and go about your day

create a situation, either hypothetical or real, that would put your partner in a position to choose between you and the friend and hope for the best

Whatever will be, will be.

create a situation that would take you and your partner out of the situation

leave the party and hope that your partner follows

make friends with the match to neutralize the threat.

check the messages. We don't have secrets.

Remember to ask about the late night messages when they get out of the shower.

Laugh at his/her crazy friends calling at all hours of the night and keep watching tv.

Look to see who the sender is, but don't read the message and mention it when your partner gets out of the shower.

learn to love them.

have sex on a regular basis, but nothing more.

feel flattered at their interest and flirt your ass off. Then go home- alone.

enjoy rejecting him/her

true love waits.

we're liable to fool ourselves.

we have strong conflict.

the truth comes out.