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  • Hi! And welcome to my First Ten Dates Test. I'm a believer in the idea that the sooner we figure out if we're not good for each other, the better off we both are. Hence, the first ten dates become very important in figuring out just where we're going to end up. So, since the first ten dates could take up to two months, let's do a virtual ten-date tour and see where we wound end up!