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  • Let's face it: all this supposed "freedom" just makes life in the U.S. confusing, difficult and uncertain. A caste system has worked for hundreds of years in India, and it's high time we set one up here. Well, okay, high time I set one up. Trust me, knowing your place in the world makes living that much easier, kinda like television. Don't worry yer purdy lil' head about it. Just answer the questions below and I'll figure out where you end up.