• Hi and welcome to Italiangrl86's test, Love or Lust: Which One Is It? It's a special test I have made to open up some eyes out there that are in a relationship and questioning where it stands. These are common sense questions and should help to put the matter into perspective. I wrote this test based on being on a relationship with a man (duh, I'm a girl) but guys are also free to take it, just imagine the questions pertaining to a woman instead of a man. Ok, enough chit chat, it's time to get to work...