• This is basically how self destructive you are, but I'm also aiming more towards the more obvious, outward signs of, like cutting, or staying with an abusive partner, instead of getting *really* deep into drug abuse/sexual habits, because as far as sex and drugs go, do whatever the hell it is that makes you happy. (disclaimer- you can't blame me for telling you to turn into a cokehead because it makes you happy, in no way am i going to take responsibility for your dumbass mistakes)