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Do think it is okay to end a connection, where you have talked by phone and you have met in person for 4 hours or more, through an e-mail or through using an IM?
Do you think a man expressing grief, sadness, or disappointment, and actually releasing tears, is healthy with his love partner?
Do you think it is okay to stand up a date and not inform them with a phone call at least 6 hours ahead of time(assume your date was made a day or more before), so he or she can make other plans?
Are you willing to listen and communicate through either your own or your partners anger/upset and find out what unmet needs and desires your partner is not getting met and seek empowering ways to resolve those chronic unmet needs?
If your love partner was obviously depressed, mad or sad, and lethargic in their energy, would you:
Fix them and tell them what is wrong with them
Listen to them while judging them silently in your mind
Tell them to get therapy and take meds
Allow them to have their feelings and emote them
A relationship is about:
Making you happy.
Making your partner happy
Giving to yourself and another human being
Making your partner wrong at every turn while you get to be right about everything
Why do you want a relationship?
To get my needs met.
To meet my needs while also meeting my partners needs equally emotionally, sexually, financially, etc.
To have fun at someone elses expense emotionally and financially
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