New!   Incognito Mode. Now you can hand-select who sees you on OkCupid. That means total control of your visibility.

  • I've had a person get seriously pissed off at me for not returning his e-mail, and now he occassionally harasses me in effort to enact revenge, I suppose. I thought that part of the beauty of this site was unabashed rejection. Either way, you can take this test prior to e-mailing me so as to preempt any hurt feelings or aggravation.