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  • D/s roles are developed over time with a lover. These roles are very primal, and their nature could be confused by many especially in such a "civilized" and modern society. Because these roles reach down to the core of a human being, they have a raw power not to be found anywhere else and can evoke an honesty of the soul that is profound. Commitment becomes not only a commitment to your lover, but to your own primal self as well. Come, enjoy my test and I will share what I have learned over the last four years since I gave my girlfriend a collar and started on this path.