New!   Incognito Mode. Now you can hand-select who sees you on OkCupid. That means total control of your visibility.

  • If you think you'd like to come over to my house and play scrabble (not a euphemism) or watch movies or play music, but you are worried that you are a bore and I would not like you, this would be a good way to determine that without all the awkwardness of “getting-to-know you”. Or if you think that I am quite fetching and you'd really like to play scrabble (a euphemism), but you are concerned that I might be a dullard who you couldn't stand to be around for even a short period of time, this test will help you answer that question.
  • that is not me, it's bea arthur, wishing you luck.