• A Dom and a sub need to have a similar agenda, even if they are approaching a BDSM relationship from opposite ends of the spectrum. What I hope to determine with this test is if you are the ideal type of submissive for me to play with. This is not to say we won't have fun if you don't score high, but it should give you a good idea of what I expect from a submissive, and show you if what you look for in a Dominant is present in me.