Dec 27, 2012 6:19am

OK, so one of the more interesting questions is the "Group Sex" question (see below).  I've been very surprised as I browse through women's profiles, that it seems like a lot of women have answered "I've tried it."

Seriously?  Are a lot of women out there doing this?  Guess I kind of thought it would be more of a rarity.

Group sex (with 3 or more people):

I have tried it

It seriously interests me

I have little or no interest.


Dec 27, 2012 7:08am

It seriously interests me

kind of

but probably only hypothetically


then again, so does sheepshagging

which is funnier to say


Dec 29, 2012 7:54am

All the kids are doing it, Mr. 3992.


Dec 30, 2012 12:05pm

As mostly it refers to FFM, then it follows that the ratio of 'I've tried it' would be close to 1/3 M vs 2/3 F...


Dec 31, 2012 5:59am

This is true, I feel like many women have had a threesome with a man and a woman but not with two men or two women or they have not had more than a threesome. Just because they say they tried it doesn't mean they liked it though. I've known some girls who have been cajoled by their boyfriends into having a threesome with another girl and disliked it but wanted to please their guy...and of course some girls have done it because they wanted to and they did like it. It's also probably more common than you think but people are hush hush about it in person.


Jan 5, 2013 11:40pm

its just a fantasy.  i doubt itd actually be pleasurable if you actually acted it out.


Jan 6, 2013 12:30am

But that's probably true to some degree of any sexual relations with anyone.

. . . even sheep-shagging :(


Jan 10, 2013 1:25am

...people are hush hush about it in person.

This is a really good point.

It's not the sort of thing that tends to come up in polite conversation, and if some of the people on here are even half as prudish, and judgmental irl as they act on this forum then they are certainly not going to be privy to information about the sexual exploits of the more adventurous among us.  


Jan 10, 2013 4:31am

Funny the issue "pops up" here.  A previos postee on another thread has been trolling for such activity.  LOL.  Ahem, just wondering, could you approximate the BMI of the afore mentioned women?  My only experience with observing such activity has been limited to overweight participants.  Very easy to exit the scene.  Also, if you were really "into" this woman/man would you really share them?  


Jan 10, 2013 5:24am

People try many many things sexually when they are young, that they may not desire to continue doing as they get a bit older and want to settle down in a relationship.

I wouldn't take the 'group sex' answers to be very important, unless the person said they wanted multi-people sex/relationships somewhere on their profile, or told you that with further conversation.

Some people just like to appear to be cool.



Jan 10, 2013 8:02am

what else are you going to do when you have five friends over and the power goes out


Jan 13, 2013 6:53pm

When a woman has had sex with 3 or more people it is usually 3 or more women.


Jan 17, 2013 4:53pm

I have tried both with two women and two men (me being one of them with a woman)'s not really all that great in my experience. Looks good on paper though.


Jan 17, 2013 5:48pm

Yeah, lot of women consider it because the FFM threesum is probably one of the most common fantasies out there among men. As Dolly said, just because they have tried it doesn't mean they liked it or would do it again.


Jan 18, 2013 6:19am

I would tend to think among a population willing to do online dating that the group as a whole is more adventurous than the general population and therefore more likely to have tried more adventurous things, like group sex.

And it's not trolling because meeting people is what the fucking site is for. Every comment that has nothing to do with dating or this site is a troll.


Jan 18, 2013 3:13pm

This is not a question I would answer. Want to keep any sexual shenanigans to myself. It's also not a reasonable question for a man to ask a woman either.


Jan 18, 2013 3:25pm

If you never ask it how would anyone ever know if you are into it? 


Jan 18, 2013 3:26pm

Well I won't say I haven't but I won't say I have either.

As far as I've learnt, admitting such a predilection to a man would be an automatic freak out for the guy.


Jan 18, 2013 3:28pm

Sorry. Can I ask you about sheep shagging instead?


Jan 21, 2013 7:02pm

Shit, I can barely manage the logistics of masturbation. Pleasuring that many other people? Lets just watch a movie, I'm too tired. And I have a headache.

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