Aug 21, 2009 9:31pm

She was a completely different person. The pictures she showed me were of her "sister".  She was nice, so I didn't mention it, but I have yet to call her back.


Aug 21, 2009 10:26pm

note to self: young girls on dating sites are easy to kidnap


Aug 21, 2009 10:37pm

pumpkinpjs, that's not a nice thing to say, it's creepy.

i don't understand why anyone would want to go with anyone they barely know in car like that either. don't do it..


Aug 21, 2009 10:38pm

I got off the subway, she was waiting for me. Now online, we hit it off, same with on the phone. Even texting and all that we just clicked well enough. Once we started walking, all she could talk about was her ex. I figured she had a bad day or something and she would knock it off. We were sitting down for lunch and she kept goooing and goooooing about how they just didn't work. Then she turned to how she's a wiccan and that everyone should be and blah blah. I mentioned I was an atheist and everyone is allowed their own choice, but she said it should be mandatory so the world be a better place. I paid the bill and told her I had to head home. She asked if I wanted to come back to her dorm room, I said no thanks and started to walk back. She jumped on me. Yes, as I was walking away, she did a full flying leap onto my back and yelled that we should date. That's when I dropped her and booked it.


Aug 22, 2009 8:25am

59-19=40 ;)


Aug 22, 2009 8:26am

Pics of 'sister' = super lame.


Aug 22, 2009 8:41am

I talked to a girl for about a week online.  We had two or three phone conversations, and finally decided to meet.  When we met, she informed me that her roommate was kicking her out, and that she needed somewhere to stay.  I didn't think my roomie would really like me bringing some stranger into our home without proper notice (I'm very considerate of such things), so I got us a room for a couple of days.  She became more, and more clingy over the time we were together, and by the end of the second day, she tells me that she's "in love" with me.  Okay, now I will list everything wrong with this "date".

1. It lasted 2.5 days, not 2-4 hours, as I would have hoped for a meet up.

2. I'm not opposed to romance, and emotions, but I don't even know her, and she is "in love" with me?

3. Drama right off the bat.  I want to meet someone and have fun, not get involved in their conflicts.

4. When she called her mom and told her that she had "met the perfect guy".  She doesn't really know me either, so how does she know that? 

All in all, it was a horrible experience, and put me off of online dating for awhile.  I know now, with more experience, that it was largely my fault for being too nice, but I struggle with that.  I can't stomach the thought of putting someone out on the street, even still.  I've finally thrown my hat back in the ring, but I will be much more cautious in the future.


Aug 22, 2009 10:13am

^ I thought I had it worst online date was a girl with the runs, who was very loud in the bathroom.  Although I'm pretty unlucky as I went to an amusement park only to have my date (Who I knew prior) vomit at the end of the ride.  It must just be me...


Aug 22, 2009 1:05pm

That's funny, but worse if she SOUNDS like Aunt Bea.  WHoa, this posted in totally random order.  Where did the guy go who said his dates tended to look like Aunt Bea.  And do some of you even wonder who the heck Aunt Bea is.  But where did he go?


Aug 22, 2009 1:08pm

I hope that's a note to all the "girls" here who would get into a car with someone they met on a dating site.  I mean, don't most of you know basic safety rules, and how to treat someone you don't want to see again?  I'm just wondering.


Aug 22, 2009 1:09pm

Are the pics of someone getting married.  I mean, that would be a more concerning problem with it, eh?


Aug 22, 2009 1:11pm

It's hard to think of all the questions to ask someone you meet online.  Like, "By the way, you aren't a wiccan are you?"


OK my worst date was with a guy who wouldn't take his hat off during lunch.  Old hat, too.  He had me order, which was "nice" I guess but why? And then he wrote back to me and got my name totally wrong.  I mean my name is in my okcupid name, I mean it wouldn't take much to remember it or review the material included on the box, ya know?


Aug 22, 2009 3:44pm

i totally agree with basically everything you said. You were being a hardcore jerk and i feel really bad for that poor girl that had to sit through that date with you!


Aug 22, 2009 4:01pm

Man, I feel so much better about the couple of only slightly akward dates I've had. Some real gems in here.


Aug 25, 2009 8:23am

I feel bad dates r a combo of things personality and fear! SOme people are terrible at convo an being real which hints at personalities also some men and women are truly asshole (Like my self) but im a great conversationlist and don't mind what a woman size is so if you real an the other person is real then you can have a good time even if the 2 people don't like each other.


Aug 25, 2009 8:24am

I nvr really done a date but 1 time I told a chick when I was in high school that we could meet at the movies n I left her there.  LOl!


Aug 25, 2009 8:26am

Worst date ever. Met a guy online seemed nice. After several weeks of talking to him online and by phone agreed to meet him. First off looked nothing like his pictures and also found out he had been lying about alot of other things and then after picking me up his first question was if we were going to f**ck. Total looser. Thought just cause I agreed to meet him meant he was going to get some.


Aug 25, 2009 11:52am

there are so many... but i would have to say when i went to meet him... he had no car, money, or even a job! I ended up footing the bill and driving him everywhere when he asked ME out.


Aug 25, 2009 12:00pm

Worst date, isn't really that bad - but here goes: He came down to see me after work on a Friday, which was a 2hr journey, he had a good job, was quite cute, had alot in common.

Was just that 1. He was 5 years older and kept going on about how young I was and how guilty he felt being with me? He kept smoking joints in my room, then we went out to a bar and I was sort of high from the fumes anyways and drank a bit (I'm a lightweight) that he ended up staying at mine and we had sex.

The sex was ummm crap to say the least. He was so nervous, he just didn't know what to do, lol.

Was a proper gentleman the next day though apart from - said he had feelings for another girl and he felt guilty abour what happened for her sake. Was more than apologetic really, but all of it was a dumbass mistake.

I will NEVER do anything like that again, I swear.


Aug 25, 2009 12:13pm

I met up with a man and he scared me. Once we were together he ordered me around, ordered my food, criticized my clothes and was like if you wanna be with me you have to address these issues...I think he was gay and confused..Then when I didnt want to sleep with him, He cried and got all insecure Why doesnt anyone love me? is what he kept whining about....very very weird

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