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Help and FAQ

All about OkCupid, how it works, and how to get around. Much more useful than our actual FAQ page.

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Can't send message? by vassargirl86 posted Yesterday - 8:37pm

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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Your Top 3 FAQ Questions? by misspinkcupcakes posted Aug 3 8:14pm

Match Questions

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Have you reached answering 10,000 questions yet? by ruby_red_rose posted Aug 18 11:31am

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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Occam’s razor "fetishized and misapplied as a guiding beacon..." by book_reader-too posted Yesterday - 3:06pm

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sometimes this section is so lonely by thatnetguy posted Sunday - 7:52am

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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i am quite happy 1st date and bang bang ! thank god i had condom by misspinkcupcakes posted Yesterday - 4:36pm

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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Imagine what you would do if vassargirl messages you itt by daishaface posted Yesterday - 7:09am

Profile Suggestions

Help others with the content of their profile or get suggestions on your own.

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Cathy the Cutest Cuddle Cat - her final hours... by misspinkcupcakes posted Yesterday - 10:44am

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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How can LGBQT members and proponents support HRC with a straight face? by TryUsingBees posted Sunday - 9:29am


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Feeling anxious about a kink/fetish by penumbrae posted Yesterday - 2:23pm

Life Advice

Seeking any help that doesn't fit into the "Love Advice" forum? Post here.

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Why do we get "sleep" stuff... by misspinkcupcakes posted Yesterday - 5:50pm

Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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Borderline Personality Disorder by misspinkcupcakes posted Monday - 8:13am


Discussions about life and love.

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In This Thread— by FrokTeling posted Yesterday - 2:36pm

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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4,301 Questions Answered in Improve Matches by wmm000 posted Aug 14 8:28pm

Alternative Lifestyles

If you are worried about offending the mainstream post here.

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Daddy's Girl Fetish by La-Ritournelle posted Jul 25 11:17am

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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Answer each question by asking a question. by NotAdamSandler posted Just now!

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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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TAMPA / ST. PETE! follow-up thread by goth1856 posted Aug 10 5:54am

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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Proposition: Virginity Swap by Zaelesh posted Saturday - 2:55am