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Help and FAQ

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** Read this before asking for Admin Support ** by book_reader-too posted Today - 2:54am

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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Your Top 3 FAQ Questions? by misspinkcupcakes posted Jul 1 1:50pm

Match Questions

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Do you believe that there exists a statistical correlation between race and intelligence? by WBS0 posted Wednesday - 2:32am

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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Why not respond to messages (looking for serious mature discussion) by Intense_City posted Today - 1:27pm

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oops how did I get here by thatnetguy posted Jul 3 7:01pm

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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Sometimes I Wonder... by misspinkcupcakes posted Wednesday - 8:06am

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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Men responding to contacts from women by thatnetguy posted Jul 20 6:20pm

Profile Suggestions

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Why do girls never respond to me? by MsOtis posted Today - 11:09am

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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Where are all the female rapists? by daishaface posted Jul 19 10:41am


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confidence and body positivity by sarahbop posted Today - 6:50am

Life Advice

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Advanced Avian Husbandry: Taming and Naming a Wild Chicken by La-Ritournelle posted Today - 12:24pm

Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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Why Are No Girls Responding To My Messages? by MsOtis posted Today - 11:07am


Discussions about life and love.

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incognito mode by daishaface posted Today - 2:30pm

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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4,301 Questions Answered in Improve Matches by thatnetguy posted Jul 11 12:10pm

Alternative Lifestyles

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Daddy's Girl Fetish by La-Ritournelle posted Monday - 11:17am

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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Let's write a happy story together. (five words each, please) by Lorrabelle posted Today - 3:43pm

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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Hillary Clinton Trumps Donald Tweeter In Pants As The Voice Of A Woman In Philly Chokes Google For Twitter by La-Ritournelle posted Today - 12:18pm

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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uk meeting by La-Ritournelle posted Jun 19 10:25am