May 26, 2013 4:12pm

Several men visit my page over and over, but don't message me; why is that?


May 26, 2013 5:24pm

I dunno. Let's see ...

Wow enjoy those breasts

Why buy the cow when the milk is free?


May 26, 2013 5:28pm

Also. Fear of winning an old goat.


May 26, 2013 5:46pm

I think, maybe they don't want to talk.


May 26, 2013 5:55pm

  • there is like twenty people in montanna trying to date at any one time and im sure they are married.
  • you are going to have to do a lot to help them not want to cheat and drive a long distance just to see your a cups in a tank top

May 26, 2013 7:07pm

Old, fat, poor, and has a kid? On the other hand, you look really young, are fairly pretty, and seem like you'd probably be decent at conversation. 


May 26, 2013 7:33pm

Low self esteem?  Shy?  Nervous about contacting you? 


May 26, 2013 8:05pm

The better question is why, now that you've noticed this trend, you don't message them?


May 27, 2013 4:35am

Winning an old goat is indicative to my personality I think it is funny because I don't look like an old goat.  I agree with you on the boob thing.  My cousin convinced me to put it in. I already took it out.  Ouch Invisible_hand - Old, Fat, poor.  I wouldn't say I am fat, and 41 is not OLD.  And my income is fine because I don't have a lot of debt and I am going to school and working.  How many people can say they are debt free?  Not many.  Especially a single mom.

Yes, the pickings are slim here.  I have contacted people who have viewed my profile more than once, and they just visit it again.  Maybe they have alzheimers. :)



May 27, 2013 6:30am

Don't mind the other forumites.  Trolling is a pastime here.  You look fine, blah blah blah ect.  I donno, I took another look at your profile.  It seems fine to me.  I donno what the issue is.


May 27, 2013 6:44am

I'm not saying any of those things bother me personally, but just to answer your question, when people are speeding through profiles, looking through the details to see 41, curvy, less than $20,000, and has a kid are all reasons to leave and look at the next profile. They might have 16 open at the same time in different tabs and aren't going to message all of them, and might not actually read any of them. 


May 27, 2013 6:54am

Don't mind the other forumites.  Trolling is a pastime here.


Wombat asked a legitimate question: 

why ... you don't message them?


May 27, 2013 7:36am

I do message them if I am interested and they do not respond, but they do visit my profile again and again. 


May 27, 2013 7:50am

Why does it fucking matter whether or not they message you first? Put your big girl panties on and message them if you wanna talk to them so fucking bad. Duh. This shit isn't rocket science.


edit: Read the rest of the thread. It must be your looks. Sorry grannie.


May 27, 2013 7:54am

Your profile is rather choppy and hard to read; your punctuation and spacing is also incorrect in several spots and distracting. To me, anyway. I doubt many men actually read profiles, or care about that sort of thing if they're into you.



May 27, 2013 7:57am

I tend to just click whatever links pop up in front of me, and I never remember who people are just from their pictures, so I tend to view the people who show up on the front page all the time, even when I'm not actually interested in them. That might be what's going on.

I doubt many men actually read profiles

I think most dudes do read them in their entirety. How much they care varies. But even the broiest of my bros reads the whole thing.


May 27, 2013 7:59am

Wow, Tittysweat why don't you tell me how you really feel.



May 27, 2013 8:15am

I feel fucking wonderful. 25 years old, pretty, and 200+ visitors a day. I get at least 50 to 100 messages a day, and reply to NONE of them. Suck on that, grannie.


Hi Zelbaby. I love you forever. <3


May 27, 2013 8:25am

This thread is making me loose some hope for humanity..


May 27, 2013 8:26am

Your inability to spell the word lose makes me lose faith in your ability to uh... SPELL correctly.

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