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Personality section of my profile saying I'm "Less confident" by roxxr posted Yesterday - 5:00pm

Questions From Us To You

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Your Top 3 FAQ Questions? by roxxr posted Jul 1 1:50pm

Match Questions

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Would you prefer good things happened, or interesting things? by areté- posted Jul 7 2:34am

Rants & Raves

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I like your profile and picture!!! by book_reader-too posted Today - 3:48am

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oops how did I get here by thatnetguy posted Jul 3 7:01pm

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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Same thing happening after every date - failure by thatnetguy posted Wednesday - 2:14pm

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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Men responding to contacts from women by thatnetguy posted Wednesday - 6:20pm

Profile Suggestions

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Photos by Doug_22 posted Yesterday - 11:29pm

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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Where are all the female rapists? by daishaface posted Tuesday - 10:41am


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Every time I see Penumbrae posting in the forums I get nervous. by VoidsIncision posted Today - 2:28am

Life Advice

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Knockers issue by Tulefel posted Tuesday - 2:58pm

Dating Advice

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Why Don't I See Responses or Visitors? by daishaface posted Yesterday - 5:31pm


Discussions about life and love.

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In This Thread— by FrokTeling posted Today - 3:27am

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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4,301 Questions Answered in Improve Matches by thatnetguy posted Jul 11 12:10pm

Alternative Lifestyles

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squirting girls by MsLorelai posted May 28 10:46pm

Unmitigated Drama

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What song are you listening to RIGHT NOW? by sandyvs posted Thursday - 12:52pm

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Past Meetups

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Donald Trump has exposed Marco Rubio. by roxxr posted May 27 3:38pm

Group Meetups

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uk meeting by La-Ritournelle posted Jun 19 10:25am