Dec 10, 2008 5:13am

I have a friend... lol... A female friend who is inordinately aroused by being checked out, and has taken to going a step further. She also likes being dared, and who am I to not encourage her, right? ;-) Anyway, I'm fishing for ideas. The guidelines I have are a) keep it legal and b) don't be offensive, as in make it where a person has to choose to take a second look. I'm all ears to any ideas you can suggest. She's already, per my dare, "accidentally" left a changing room curtain not properly closed. Thanks in advance!

Dec 10, 2008 5:51am

over in sexuality they have the boob, booty and pussy comparison threads, she can put up pics for folks to examine and comment on

Dec 10, 2008 10:23am

Sounds like a fine habit to encourage in an attractive woman.

Sending people pics/links is not exhibitionism.

I'd say she should dress as provocatively as situations permit,getting clothes to suit (you might buy some for her).And things like not leaving the curtains closed all the way,she should cultivate as habits.


Dec 10, 2008 10:38am

What about masturbating in the car while you drive? Ideally passing some trucks or high minivans

Dec 10, 2008 10:43am

My husband makes me wear skimpy clothes sometimes as a sort of exhibitionism / humiliation thing.

Dec 10, 2008 10:53am

Thanks for the ideas, and hopefully they'll keep coming, specially if there are more perspectives from ladies. By the way Trish... "woo woo!"... :-)

Dec 10, 2008 11:45am

Locking herself out of somewhere in her underwear can be hot if she has reasonable faith she'll be let back in before something bad happens.If she gets used to doing this she can gradually wear less as she does it until she goes as far as she dares.

Dec 10, 2008 11:58am

Take her out to a bar, have her wear a halter top, mini skirt, heels an no panties. Order a long neck beer. Ever time you want a sip, she has to put under her skirt ;)

Dec 10, 2008 12:27pm

Just dressing like that and going to the mall, going up the escalators, standing near the second floor railings, that makes me wet....

Dec 10, 2008 12:48pm

Well,do it whenever it's convenient,Trish...it's appreciated!

And don't forget to drop things now and then and bend over to carefully pick them up.

Of course solo exhibits and supervised exhibits can be done differently.


Dec 10, 2008 12:51pm

It's really cold now, so I'll have to be patient... But when summer comes along, I'll be sending her out in a lightweight light colored colored sundress, and she'll stand in the path of a sunbeam shining through a window/door or a bright light of some sort and talk to people while the bright light makes the dress almost see-through.

Dec 10, 2008 1:39pm

Use the power of low necklines and high hemlines wherever practical.

Dec 10, 2008 3:38pm

I'm an exhibitionist too, but I don't really care for any of the ideas listed, because those that your lady friend may be showing off to are not able to consent to the interaction. Most of those things are fairly mild and she will probably be able to get away with them and, depending on the setting (i.e. a bar as opposed to a mall), may be unlikely to offend anyone. I will also admit to doing some similar things without negative consequences. However, I prefer to be an exhibitionist in front of consenting adults. Consider having her take part in an amateur night at a strip club or going with you to a swing party.

Swing clubs, swing parties, and sex clubs offer many possibilities and typically have "no means no" policies, so your gf would not be obligated to anything more than she wants to. People at swing clubs love exhibitionist women and your gf would have the opportunity to flirt, strut, and put on a show. In a reputable place, simply stating that this is what you are there for should suffice as a response to anyone interested in more, if you and your gf are not interested in actual sex with others.

Dec 10, 2008 3:44pm

the fun thing about living in a high rise.. is that Im an exhibitionist in my own home... whilst, I knw that there tons of telescopes peepin.... I love it... come on over...have some ciroc'

Dec 10, 2008 7:57pm

I'm sure your exhibits are appreciated,but have you actually spotted the telescopes?

Dec 10, 2008 7:59pm

haha! yes- b/c I have telphoto lens, and binoculars.... we know what are doing..... no harm

Jan 7, 2009 8:16am

Button up skirts with a couple of buttons more than usual 'accidentally' undone is one of my favourite ploys for occasionally showing another man in a pub a glimpse of my knickers.

Jan 7, 2009 8:56am

"Living Mannequin"- Have someone do her makeup to give her a very shiny "plastic" looking face. Dress her in some rather provocative or fashion forward clothing and have her stand perfectly still at a high traffic area in a Mall.

"Half Cross-dress"- very skimpy mini-skirt with no panties, garter belt, and stockings combined with a men's shirt and tie.


Jan 7, 2009 9:20am

I was addressing a meeting a few years ago from a slightly raised dais. One of my co workers sat front row centre. For the fiteen minutes of my presentation she gave me the "Sharon Stone" treatment slowly and regularly. Puts a whole new "slant" on public speaking.

Jan 7, 2009 10:17am

I've got to side with Merry here. Exhibitionism is hot; exhibitionism in front of an audience that has not consented to it is not.

Not everyone likes the same things, and engaging in a fetish in front of people who may be unwilling participants is not cool. There are plenty of ways to engage an exhibition fetish with folks who are consenting; there's no reason to take it in front of people who are not. Respect for others is one of the key components of any healthy sexuality. Keep in mind, too, that the US is in the grip of an absurd moral panic about sex and sexuality, and even mild displays of sexuality in a public place may be enough to have you branded as a registered sex offender.

Play parties are an excellent, safe, and consensual way to engage in exhibitionism.

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