Rather recently, I've been exploring the idea of polyamory. What does it mean? Isn't it cheating? Does it seem like something that would benefit the lives of all involved? My spiritual beliefs lead me to feel like love should be shared in a multitude of healthy connections. My societal conditioning says that it could never work because monogamy is the One Twue Way. I'm here to figure out which is me.
This doesn't mean I want to jump into anything. I'm very busy between work, my partner, and our fur-babies. I do want to have more friends in my life, male and female. Anything beyond that will happen as it happens based on the depth of connection we make.
As for my personality, I'm weird (in a beautiful way, apparently), sarcastic, timid (to a point), proud, strong and an introvert/extrovert depending on how comfortable I am with given people in a given situation.
I find that after I listen to songs like this:
It helps to listen to songs like these:
Let's be friends!
So, what is an RVT? Ya know, cute, fluffy, seizing, parvo-smelling, anal gland expressing, ADORABLE LOVEY FUZZ BALLS. Yeah, I didn't pick it for the glamour. :D
Fitness is very important to me, so before I die, I want to become either a nutritionist or a personal trainer. Probably the latter, well because, SIDE-EYE @ U COLLEGE. >.> As an addition to this, college helped bring back a lot of my old habits, so anyone interested in working out together should definitely let me know. I really enjoyed lifting weights way back when.
When I grow up, I'd like to have a small homestead with my partner, so that during the day I can be Cinderella, the Strong and Capable Awesome and then turn into Princess Snuggles, the Tea-Drinking Pile of Comfortable Blankets at night.
Being anti-funny, awkward funny, and pointing out obvious things.
Singing. I just am. Humming, too. It's super fun.
Talking loudly when I get excited.
Deviating from the point while never quite forgetting where I was going.
Movies: HARJY POOTER (aka Harry Potter 1-8), Paranormal Activity 1-3, ANYTHING Disney, Hostage, Mamma Mia!, Rent, CLOUD ATLAS, HECTOR AND THE SEARCH FOR HA' PINESS ;) and more. Deadpool and Marvel films in general.
Shows: I watch more Netflix than I'd like to admit. I like Modern Family, Dollhouse, Firefly, Wilfred, Shin-Chan, Fairytale, Parks and Recreation, and Misfits. Cartoons from my childhood/teenage years go here, too.
Music: Mumford and Sons, Paramore, (the?) Avett Brothers, Ray LaMontagne, Halestorm, Mamma Mia!, AWOLnation, Great Lake Swimmers, Hozier, Walk the Moon, Ke$ha, Rufus Wainwright, Queen, Steam Powered Giraffe, and a bunch of stuff.
Food: I seem to like things with vinegar in them. ERMAGERD, PERKLES! I don't really like dry things unless it's popcorn. It does horrible things to me, but I forgive and consume it anyway. Dark chocolate is also devilishly good. Tea (sweet, unsweet, hot or cold). Chicken caesar salads with ranch if the dressing is too fishy, and seafood! So, pretty much anything that isn't bland or a cooked vegetable. Except, I've been working on the vegetable thing, and now I like to eat my broccoli, carrots, asparagus, and AVOCADOS MMMMMM.
My "voice" in all senses of the word
Warm pajamas in the winter
Exercise (I get grumpy if I don't work out)
The power of choice
Delicious foodstuffs (noms = party time)
Showers (greasy =/= party time)
I really don't know what I spend very much time actively thinking about unless I'm worried about something. Life flows more smoothly for me if I simply let things happen (especially since I tend to be analytic and meticulous to a genuine fault). This is something that I thought I had down pat, but turns out old habits die hard. On a crumbling bridge of rock above a fiery crevasse. No matter how many times you tell them they shan't pass. <------reference
Since I've become a moderator for the site, I spend some my time wondering why we live in a world where I have to vote against peoples' cute profile pictures of their pets and champion those who post almost nude pictures of themselves. What a world we live in.
Also, Netflix, relaxing from work, and trying not to think about getting up early for work on Saturdays.
In addition, I'm way too excited about owning a bottle of olive oil with the built in drizzle top. Dreams do come true.
There are 5 people in the United States named Rhett Butler, but I am the only person with my first and last name. Go me.
You have a copy of The Definitive Book of Body Language that I can borrow.
Ladies sans Gentlemen: You want to make me blush and stutter and...*sigh* I'm bad at this. FWB or something? :)