OKC reckons I'm more sloppy than average and less love driven.. While I usually admire the algorithms, I would argue that societies priorities and the paradigm of these concepts is pretty distorted. We learn from mistakes, so I'd rather get out there and experience life than stand back and worry how I can make things perfect (analysis paralysis). And Love? I'm all for emotional involvement if it feels right - I'm more about appreciation and compersion than possession. I lean toward sex positivity where communication and respecting boundaries are integral. By nature I prefer practising forms of ethical non-monogamy and admire relationship anarchy. While the rest of my profile predominately sets out what I DO like and what I'm about, it's worth stating that I'm NOT interested in the relationship escalator.
Ultimately life is a bit of an oddity and as much as people seem to project otherwise, I don't think anyone really has a proper grasp of what's going on. I enjoy being facetious when it comes to superficial formalities and favour humour in most situations. Terrible puns, toilet humour, self deprecating humour and lowering the tone? Definitely. A while back I was pruning apple trees with some others, when one of the women couldn't quite reach and innocently said she needed my extra six inches. How can you NOT react to that? I was recently cooking with someone and they wanted a knob of butter, so I asked them if they wanted a big knob.. Manners don't cost a thing and so long as you treat people well and be there for them when they need it then I think that's what matters.
I have my shit together, I drive, and in a nutshell, I like CULTURE, MISCHIEF, HUGS and FUN.
I'm currently starting my own gardening business and recently applied for a live in position at a commune in the Chiltern's called Brazier's Park. I'm pretty confident, and if successful, I will be working on the grounds as an ornamental gardener for three days a week in exchange for boarding and lodge, then have the remaining days to work for myself. I'm hitting up a few festivals this summer including Subsonic Weekender, Camp Wildfire, Noisily, Illusive, and No-Mans Land.
I typically enjoy meets, meals, movies & live local music with friends. Lifetime membership with the National Trust, I like a bit of adventure - places with historical / geographical interest & finding an old hidden pub with character on the way is a nice bonus. Anime's good, gaming more a past-time but does a good job of bringing me back to it. Podcasts and debates on science and philosophy are awesome when doing activities which don't involve too much thought such as walking or constructing garden beds. Mycology, space & quantum stuff is pretty neat.. There's a wealth of stuff out there & I'm never bored.
Historically I've enjoyed bridging social connections & making things happen. Always interested in different activities and ways of living. I also have some kind of dream to incorporate interesting plants at festivals and create nice magical environments that reconnect people with the world and each other. An Aztec ruin themed skatepark utilising hypertufa and sub-tropical bedding plants would also be immense. Yes *rubs hands together*
Reclaiming my mind from the hands of cultural engineers, who want to turn me into a half-baked moron consuming all this trash that's being manufactured out of the bones of a dying world.
90's Pop / Dance
Metal is so diverse and I love it all.. Power, folk, battle, viking, pagan, black, death, melodeath, thrash, gothic, progressive, funeral, stoner, various acoustic bits.. Metalcore and flailing arm nonsense doesn't do it for me. Nu-Metal.. not so good either, couple of exceptions. If I go for rap metal it'll be more along the lines of RATM.
Punk and skatepunk, metal / punk crossover
All kinds of ambient
Psybient for those trippy moments
Trance & PsyTrance - Love Whirly Gig, Tribe of Frog. Planet Angel's music doesn't quite hold up to the aforementioned IMO.
Reggae, alone is brilliant, crossed over with dnb.. oh my word!
Techno, particularly minimal, breakbeat styled stuff
House, particularly funky & stuff with more energy, I like a bit of deep house, witch house seems interesting, I've gone off the old acid house as it just seems dated these days.
Happy Hardcore! Hixxy, Vibes are favourites, Dougal did a fine set at Bangface 2013 so he deserves a mention.
Over my life I've played the piano on and off - I like to compose music & I'm making slow progress with Cubase and music production.
Bombing for peace is like fucking for virginity, levels of bullshit in the world (George Carlin's the man! Ignore the stupid 'illuminati' bit someone's stuck in the title), and various geo-politics that I've snipped out an already heaving profile.
"They're so brave" I thought.
I was on a bit of a comedown.
General enthusiasm is a big plus in what I'm looking for in others, people that contribute to the world in their own way. Like me you should be keen to meet people sooner than later - I carry the mindset that profiles are enough to gauge whether meeting is agreeable, without the need for more than a couple of messages. This is important actually. Society is so broken that guys generally have to play a very intricate timing game on when to invite a woman out while talking with them, so as not to come across as a creep or too keen (too quick), or to end up boring them (too long). I'm happy to play gender normative roles, but find sensitivity of this degree to be utterly fucking tiresome. I understand why women have this defence mechanism, but if you've done the questions and answered that one about meeting people and put that you're hesitant, I am NOT interested. Don't waste my time. I enjoy meeting new people and socialising, and I'm ready NOW. If you're not, that's cool - choose the next profile, there's plenty of people out there!
If this hasn't excluded you and you're interested sending something, know that I am pretty easy to talk to and get along with. I'm not expecting some kind of essay, or highly thought out message. You can't really know if you'll get on with someone until you meet someone, so it's best just to get the ball over the net in my opinion. A couple/few relevant lines will do. I've included plenty on my profile so it's easy to pick something out, I'm not expecting someone to go through it all. So go on, chop chop! Less thinking, more writing! I want to hear from you. Yes you.
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