My intentions on OKC: I'm looking for people with whom I can snuggle and talk philosophy, geek on science while touching each others bodies, dissect culture and egos, or just toke up and share chips and hummus lying naked in the sun. I'm open to and interested in anything from finding singing/dancing/concert/science/weed/naturist buddies to primal, get-each-other-off sex pals to a long-term, raise-kids partnership, to whatever we decide we want to do together. I'm ethically non-monogamous and currently have two physical-intimacy friends and a variety of cuddle buddies. I'm comfortable with a range of relationship styles, and I always enjoy exploring intimacy with others.
Availability for meeting up: I'm currently very busy as I'm still learning how to balance my life as a freelancer/contractor. However, I'm heavily involved in the video game, VR/AR, and audio/music industry, so if you're into that, then we might fit into each others lifestyles a bit more cohesively. I'm certainly able to make time, but probably not much more than once or so a week for the time being.
Key stuff about me: I love hugs, I have a genuine heart and an active sense of wonder, I'm fairly self-aware and always working on becoming more so and improving myself. I have no gods nor masters. I live an incredibly resourceful lifestyle that's somewhere between extremely frugal and totally cheap. I love live music, festivals, and cons/expos of all kinds. I'm a musician, performer, dancer, and lover of life with a strong sense of compassion and love for myself and others.
I feel home when living near forests, mountains, and oceans. I'm interested in self-knowledge, divergent thinking, science, logic, philosophy, travel, history, psychology, and creating. I also enjoy living room dance parties, karaoke nights, Muppet movies, Mario Kart time trials, and Courtney Love-style nylon-tears interspersed with an abundance of wine, weed, pizza, and amazing people.
Progressive rock, EDM, jazz, folk, djent, video game music, and anything with emotive melodies. Some favorites are Cloud Cult, Rishloo, Ella Fitzgerald, TesseracT, Nobuo Uematsu, Jim Croce, Zedd, Mother Mother, A Perfect Circle, FTM, Koji Kondo, Tracy Chapman, Portishead, America, Chet Baker, Symphony of Science...
I enjoy both tabletop and video games. Mostly stuff like Settlers, 7 Wonders, etc. And for video games, I'm most fond of NES, SNES, N64, and other old-school games, but I've been taken in by many modern indie games, such as Bastion, Portal, Never Alone, Papers Please, and things you'd find featured in the PAX 10.
Pizza, microbrews, wine, Thai iced tea, masala chai, horchata, Mexican, Japanese, Thai, American, Indian, German, and occasionally, Taco Bell food-substitute.
M.C. Escher is my all-time fave. I also enjoy pop-art, surrealism, and other modern art. Some favorites include Dali, Gonsalves, Picasso, Van Gogh, Duchamp, Warhol, Haring, Mondrian, Pollock, Toulouse-Lautrec, & Rothko. Museum trips are an all-day activity for me.
Miyazaki, V for Vendetta, Eternal Sunshine..., Shawshank Redemption, What Dreams May Come, Scott Pilgrim... I also dig any Muppet movie or legendary 80s/90s film, especially Labyrinth, The Goonies, The Sandlot, The Neverending Story, & The Princess Bride. And Rad... that movie is legitimately rad.
I mostly read non-fiction books and articles, specifically those about economics, philosophy, game audio, psychology, parenting, history, science, and self-knowledge. A few favorite authors include Carl Sagan, Richard Dawkins, Ray Bradbury, George Orwell, Thomas Woods, H.G. Wells, and Winifred Phillips.
Rick and Morty for 100 years..., Steven Universe, Firefly, Game of Thrones, Avatar: The Last Airbender, Cosmos, South Park, Pen & Teller: Bullshit, MythBusters, and anything about science, psychology, or economics.
School Sucks Podcast, The Game Audio Podcast, Freakonomics, Radiolab, The Tim Ferris Show, and the Why Do You Care?! Podcast.
How to be more rational, logical, compassionate, and self-aware. And what the price might be for a plane ticket to SE Asia or South America.
Also, the finite nature of life and how someday I'll completely cease to exist. That's always a weird one, but I'm learning to turn that fear into appreciation for the great fortune I have to be living right now... and as a human being! With a body! Bodies are amazing!
What usually happens: Finishing a bottle of wine while recording and editing a bunch of sounds that will later be put into a video game.
Most importantly, message me if you're rad, honest, rational, and you have stories to tell and ideas to share. I want to know you if you're on a continual path of growth and you give both yourself and others love and compassion. Or if you like being totally goofy/nerdy, or you like going to festivals, concerts, and cons. Or if you're a dumpster diver / thrift-shopper. Or if you don't care for the gender binary, or you already have a partner/spouse/kid(s) (kids are the shit). Also, I tend to prefer cute over hot. Being both is wicked awesome.
Do it, tell me something interesting about yourself. I once hiked 50 miles in a single day. Your turn - Show me what you got!