What I am seeking for is an intense closeness with my destined soul mate. I will definitely contemplate a long term relationship commitment should I feel comfortable with her.
I invest in relationships by being loyal, fair and just with all people in my day to day life. However, I tend to be quite cautious especially emotionally.
I feel that balance is an important essential in an ideal love partnership because I value reciprocity in my relationships and aim to treat a loved one (and others for that matter also) in the same way as I wish to be treated. I am a caring and compassionate and will be incredibly loving and highly sensitive to the wishes of a partner in a generous thoughtful manner.
The first thing that you might notice about me is that I may be
highly analytical and creative with all sorts of ideas and may be slightly detached emotionally. I am rather intelligent (I don't know the exact IQ number, but hey does that really matter?), witty and usually a bit of a philosopher.
I am normally ordinarily neat, tidy, careful and organized and tend to pay particular attention to detail. I normally look at the little things to because they do play part in the greater scheme of things eventually. Small things today can (and usually do) affect things later in life.
I have a strong will with lots of mental energy which is helpful with research and thinking and planning about projects, and organisation and as such I am capable of quickly adapting to any job. I am normally expected to be dedicated and keen to make a difference regarding the achievement of goals. I also enjoy helping others achieve the things that matter to them and that is something that I find very satisfying. I have a forward thinking perspective that is sometimes uncanny to those around me be cause I tend to see things of what can be and with the right focus and planning it can be brought to fruition. I may sometimes also have a rebellious streak to change the status quo (if things can be done better or more efficiently then why not?) and as such I can be stubborn and determined to make things different and perhaps more interesting.
I may not seem to be too materialistic. However, I do appreciate the benefits that finances bring and if directed in a sensible manner it can make a big difference in people's lives.
I have taken the The LONG Scientific Personality Test - and tested INTJ -The Mastermind - I think this link describes my personality rather well: http://www.keirsey.com/4temps/mastermind.asp
I enjoy the outdoors and the natural beauty of Cape Town. I love to capture the essence of a scenes in a photo. I am spending time to enjoy the art of photography as a hobby.
I also enjoy watching movies from time to time but will spare you from reading lists of titles, I have watched a fair share. One movie that did stand out for me was Hero directed by Zhang Yimou. I am drawn to the depth of understanding of life that is portrayed by the artist's work.
I enjoy classical music and also some more modern artists. I feel that music is food for the soul and one should savour it with discernment and good taste. Time spent with friends enjoying food food, music and conversation creates those special memories one treasures for a life time.
I also long for a special person in my life to share life's special moments with and while creating our lives together.