53 Ridgewood, United States
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My self-summary
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I'm a good hearted woman looking for my match. I hope to find a friend who could become a partner in a long term relationship. I want to find comfort and excitement. I want to share plenty of activities, have plenty of laughs, learn from each other, and have each other's back. We hold each other in high esteem, although we don't need to see everything alike. We complement and compliment each other. You are, and are looking for a classic, not a poor imitation, a permanent addition, not a temporary trailer.. I am too.
"If not now, then when?" Now, is the time.

I'm fun, caring, attractive and bright. That's a reasonable standard for you too. I'm not shallow and I'm not attracted to shallow men. (Those people have a hole in their heart, and, they just don't seem trustworthy.)

I'm game for sports but I'm not a gym rat. I like to keep healthy and I have a few favorite activities. I'd like to share them and will share yours too. ...swimmming, biking, walking in a park...

I enjoy movies, museums and shows. I especially enjoy music so a small concert or gig is welcome entertainment. I'll go dancing, too.

hmmmm. The grand experiment, it results in an important and successful outcome:
I was expecting middle-aged people to have plenty of experience, and some expertise, in making introductions and relationships. I thought that they'd ernestly search for a good match for themselves. I now have an education in the nature of single middle-age daters.... you too?
What I’m doing with my life
Searching for a partner to share everything that a couple shares. Me for you and you for me.

I'm keeping fit, swimming
year-round. (hooray. I first swam a mile, 10/3/13 & again &&...) I leisurely cycle. I've taken a few skiing lessons; and, I have a set of golf clubs...ahhh beautiful Nature. Would like a health kick buddy, indoors or outdoors, but not looking to be a gym rat, jock or camper. Wasn't active this last year, but now, back to it, in & out of the gym. (yes, I have a gym membership )

I really enjoy listening to music. I attend local and city concerts, or listen to music at home, even if it's in the background.... I also began playing the acoustic guitar.(piano & clarinet in the distant past)

I'm Professional, Personable & Generous(Golden Rule, Pay-It-Forward)
I've had very nice accomplishments. (Executive, Manager, Creative Factor, Mentor) I'm intelligent & inquisitive. I enjoy a job well done, very well done. Hopefully, I inspire those who work with me, (including interns) I am a Community 'Volunteer' in organized groups, business profession, and on a personal level. I enjoy helping others and I appreciate care & concern toward me.

I’m really good at
being a warm & passionate, partner & friend, ;-)))
....finding FUN things to do,
.......Business & Leadership
The first things people usually notice about me
my smile. ;-) I'm a good listener
attractiveness, youthfulness, intelligence

Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
-I attend local & city venues for music, comedy, plays, movies,
details in epilogue
-I enjoy museums, lectures, hangin-out at home, dining i/o.
-I enjoy various physical activities indoors & outdoors.( see "About Me")
-I enjoy Reading & Learning (book/kindle, newspaper, journal, docu, TED...)more often non-fiction
-I enjoy just being together
I welcome your suggestions! for us to enjoy
The six things I could never do without
1 Love of Family, Friends, (& one day my LOVED ONE ;-)
2 Integrity, Respect, Thoughtfulness,
3 Good Health
4 Hope

5 A Warm & Welcoming Home
6choose one of ?
..............TECH, the Arts, Nature, Reading..............& swimming <((((((=(
....... 6.1 coffee ;-))) I could adjust but I do enjoy it @day
I spend a lot of time thinking about
A Good Balance of work & "play" ;-)))
Having a good and loving partnership

If one wants to be respected and valued,
one needs to be worthy of respect, and
will respect and value an other.

On a typical Friday night I am
Relaxing or doing something Fun
i.e. making dinner, dining out,
seeing a movie/concert/show, tv,computer, reading,..
The most private thing I’m willing to admit

Come closer, closer....
*****the dates on my pictures are accurate. the age posted is what I was a little bit ago..;-)))
Even if you're younger than I am, I might look like your daughter. It happens. (Also, I want to counter a double standard regarding age. Guys, some are just not reasonable.)
"My match" would be in his 50s to early 60s , a contemporary.

You should message me if

-You're looking for
a lovely woman and
a wonderful relationship.

-We're contemporaries and
our interests and personalities would be a good fit.;-)) ;-))

Have a good attitude about exchanging some emails.
I live in Northeastern NJ accessible by car, bus, train.....
************THE END FINALLY ;-)***********************

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MUSIC !!:You name it.... Pop, R&R, Soft Rock, R&B, BG, MoT, Jazz, Indie, ... Chamber, Classical, Jam...Adele, Taylor, Gaga, Winehouse, Mclachlan, Mayer, Seal, KT, Beatles, Collins, LosLonelyBoys, Santana, Springsteen, Simon, Clapton, Brubeck, Coltrane,YoYoMa, Mozart... more,!!!!
Alicia Keys, John Mayer, Stevie Wonder, Tony Bennett, Brubeck Bros Qrtt, Bucky & John Pizzarrelli, The Heath Brothers Quartet, Bill Cunliffe Trio, Manhattan Jazz Trio, Alex Collins Jazz, Ring Of Fire:Johnny Cash Tribute Band, Star Wars Symphony (John Williams), Eagles, Billy Joel, Dave Matthews, Genesis, Beatlemania, Legends, and .... more
MUSEUMS: MMA, Gugg, Smithsonian, Louve, Prado, British, FLWright, Paint, Sculpture, Science...Matisse, Van Gogh, Picasso, Calder...
MOVIES: Many! drama, romance, espionage, sci-fi, comedy, 3D. They're exciting, adventurous, thought provoking.
Birdman, Dr. Cabbie, Gravity, Jobs, The Butler, Blue Jasmine, Elysium, We Are the Millers, Heat, The Way Way Back, SkyFall, MIB, Zero Dark Thirty, Lincoln, Silver Linings Playbook, Guilt Trip, Marigold Hotel, Mama, Midnight In Paris, Eternal Sunshine, The Bourne Identity...,many more, TV: Colbert/Stewart, Scandal/Grey's/BigBang/Frasier, PBS/B.Moyers/C.Rose/Discovery.../CNN, MSNBC ...
SHOWS: on/off brdwy, comedy,
Jersey Boys, Memphis, Rock of Ages, Beatlemania, Legends, 25th Annual..., Doubt, Race... MTC, 2nd StageCo, GuggWIP, Comedy:Salazar...
FOOD: All: ethnic to fusion, fine cuisine to fun food...barbeque to sushi to FourSeasons...(let's cook!)...healthy & splurge
VACATIONS: Resorts, In/Out US, Resorts, Conventions, Sight see, Relax, Visit
SPORTS: SWIM, Cycle, Walk, Ski-lite, Golf-lite, Occasional game at a stadium (4/1Opening Day Yankees-baseball, LB James-basketball) I'm Not a jock or Fan-atic.
BOOKS:Many! mostly non-fict: sci, tech, econ, biz, polit, psych, philos... I enjoy reading! It's relaxing
(Kindle, books !, newspapers, magazines, journals, Internet)