01SweetiePeye
53 Ridgewood, United States
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My self-summary
Welcome !............................
thank you for the LIKES......... (I don't see who sends them)
I wish Everyone success in your search for a MATCH.

Some approaches are more thoughtful,
others are a knee-Jerk reaction, and
others are absolutely shallow without any apology.
For the Thoughtful approach, (My type). here's some information..
.........................Music moves me;.............................
.....................Intelligence is a turn-on;......................
......................Being close is wonderful.....................
.........Kindness & Generosity are my good values.....
........Partnership is more than twice the Fun :-)...........

I'd describe myself as a great partner & a fine person (&I'm told):
.................warm, loving, fun, & attractive,....................
..............bright, ethical, classy, & interesting................
I'm not a match for a guy who hooks-up: No way, no how.
(To each their own. that's why they call it a match )

Why review a profile? ..........................................................
There needs to be good reason to speak with an online stranger.
....................................................(Comment on your answer to a multiple choice question if it's an important issue or if you want me to know your change in opinion or activity. aka: a dumb past.)
We don't choose our best friends from a picture album, nor because they are younger than ourselves..
.....................................................It makes sense to not look shallow.

I enjoy... a nice balance of
.................. activities and relaxation...................................(see examples)
.................. entertainment and learning..............................(see examples)
.................. conversation, lectures & the peacefulness of silence..............
.................. dressing up, dressing down (and undressing...* :-))...................

Here are some of my suggestions...add yours!. ;-)));-)))

I. ......LET'S ENJOY.................. INTERESTS & New Experiences. ;-)
We can enjoy movies, mmmusic, museums or shows,
break bread at a restaurant ;-) or get cookin at home!
We can enjoy nature & stay active (cycle, swim, golf, ski or walk... )
We can explore near or far, by plane or by train,by foot or by car.
...I'm flexible and ready ! UR2.......We can plan or be spontaneous too.
Details, Details...Let's make them Together

C'est notre raison d'être ici (It's our reason for coming here!)

II. ......LET'S ENJOY ..............Quiet Times TOGETHER. ;-)
RELAXATION, ROMANCE and PASSION.

WE'll relax and get 'cozy',
watch TV or read......
WE'll be companions, whatever we do, ...just being there too..
WE're interested,interesting& attentive.

WE have a great sense of humor and plenty of fun. ;-)))).

III. ......LET'S ENJOY ..............our friends and family ;-)
............Let's share Ordinary Days and Holidays.
..........
I welcome your children who probably are young adults & likely on their own by now? I was married for 20 years & you probably had a long term marriage too. I'm a person of fine character, ethical, loyal and loving. You are too.
We'll begin as friends &hopefully, we've found our best friend & love.
Nihil ausus nihil acquisitus (Nothing ventured, nothing gained.)
................. The time is right to Say Hello ;-)
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What I’m doing with my life
Enjoying friends & family,
Being a good person: helping others, being productive, working on goals and looking for a partner ;-))))))))
.
I'm keeping fit, swimming
year-round. (Newsflash: hooray. I swam a mile, 10/3/13 & again &&...) I leisurely cycle. I've taken a few skiing lessons; and, I have a set of golf clubs...ahhh beautiful Nature. Would like a health kick buddy, indoors or outdoors, but not looking to be a gym rat or jock . Wasn't active this last year, but now, back to it, in & out of the gym. (yes, I have a gym membership )

I really enjoy listening to music. I attend local and city concerts, or listen to music at home, even if it's in the background.... I also began playing the acoustic guitar.(piano & clarinet in the distant past)

I'm Professional, Personable & Generous(Golden Rule, Pay-It-Forward)
I've had very nice accomplishments. (Executive, Manager, Creative Factor, Mentor) I'm intelligent & inquisitive. Hopefully, I inspire those who work with me, (including interns) I am a Community 'Volunteer'.

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I’m really good at
being a great partner,

finding fun things to do,
.
Business & Leadership

Knowing good intentions from bad ones,
true people from false ones,
people who ever-learn, from never learn and know it all.

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The first things people usually notice about me
my warm smile. ;-)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
attractiveness, youthfulness, intelligence

PSA...Speaking of First Things
A telephone number(text message) and email address can be the portal for a hacker. Beware of people who immediately ask for this information.
Email and chat here initially.

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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm inquisitive. I enjoy both learning and being entertained.
I enjoy activities and relaxation. ;-)))
(some specifics are listed at the end of the profile)

-I frequent a few venues for music, comedy, plays, movies, (details in epilogue)
-I enjoy museums, lectures, hangin-out at home, dining i/o.
-I enjoy various physical activities indoors & outdoors
-I enjoy Reading & Learning (book/kindle, newspaper, journal, docu, TED...)
-I can have fun locally, in or out of state, or...out-of-the-country...
-I enjoy being together doing or not doing

Add Your interests for us to enjoy
....some specific events are listed after the profile
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The six things I could never do without
1 Love of Family, Friends, (& one day my LOVED ONE ;-)
2 Integrity, Respect, Thoughtfulness, Good Sense, Truth
3 Good Health
4 Hope

.
things:
5 A Warm & Welcoming Home
6choose one of ?
..............TECH, the Arts, Nature, Reading..............& swimming <((((((((=(
....... 6.1 coffee ;-))) I could adjust but I do enjoy it @day
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I spend a lot of time thinking about
good partnership,
social contract,
interpersonal skills &
relationships
happiness

Excellence
Understanding
Generosity of thoughts and deeds.
Good moral compass

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On a typical Friday night I am

TGIF, ENJOYING
the evening
......(hopefully soon with you)

staying-in, or going-out
I'm flexible.
making dinner, dining out,
Perhaps seeing a movie/concert/show, tv,computer, reading,..


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The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Come closer, closer....
**the dates on my pictures are accurate. the age posted is what I was a little bit ago..;-)))
Even if you're younger than I am, I might look like your daughter. "My match" would be a wise and warm man in his 50s to early 60s , a contemporary.

It's your prerogative.
Casual sex is a hookup. Hookers do hookups. I don't do casual sex.

Scientific Research follows: QUOTED !" From (United-Academics.org) the field of psychology..:"
**"As it turned out, those who waited (no 1st date sex)reported ... a better sex life."
**"Researchers found that couples who had sex the earliest — such as after the first date or within the first month of dating — had the worst relationship outcomes."
You should message me if
We seem to be a good MATCH. !
-You really enjoy good companionship, rather than being Single.
-You're WISE, WONDERFUL, & FUN

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Guys,
Have a good attitude about exchanging some emails.
I live in Northeastern NJ accessible by car, bus, train.....
************THE END FINALLY ;-)***********************

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...................................EPILOGUE...................................
The details for Question 5
Books/Movies/Music/Food
(not recently updated)
MUSIC !!:You name it.... Pop, R&R, Soft Rock, R&B, BG, MoT, Jazz, Indie, ... Chamber, Classical, Jam...Adele, Taylor, Gaga, Winehouse, Mclachlan, Mayer, Seal, KT, Beatles, Collins, LosLonelyBoys, Santana, Springsteen, Simon, Clapton, Brubeck, Coltrane,YoYoMa, Mozart... more,!!!!
'ATTENDED RECENTLY'
Alicia Keys, John Mayer, Stevie Wonder, Tony Bennett, Brubeck Bros Qrtt, Bucky & John Pizzarrelli, The Heath Brothers Quartet, Bill Cunliffe Trio, Manhattan Jazz Trio, Alex Collins Jazz, Ring Of Fire:Johnny Cash Tribute Band, Star Wars Symphony (John Williams), Eagles, Billy Joel, Dave Matthews, Genesis, Beatlemania, Legends, and .... more
MUSEUMS: MMA, Gugg, Smithsonian, Louve, Prado, British, FLWright, Paint, Sculpture, Science...Matisse, Van Gogh, Picasso, Calder...
MOVIES: Many! drama, romance, espionage, sci-fi, comedy, 3D. They're exciting, adventurous, thought provoking.
'ATTENDED RECENTLY'
Birdman, Dr. Cabbie, Gravity, Jobs, The Butler, Blue Jasmine, Elysium, We Are the Millers, Heat, The Way Way Back, SkyFall, MIB, Zero Dark Thirty, Lincoln, Silver Linings Playbook, Guilt Trip, Marigold Hotel, Mama, Midnight In Paris, Eternal Sunshine, The Bourne Identity...,many more, TV: Colbert/Stewart, Scandal/Grey's/BigBang/Frasier, PBS/B.Moyers/C.Rose/Discovery.../CNN, MSNBC ...
SHOWS: on/off brdwy, comedy,
'ATTENDED RECENTLY'
Jersey Boys, Memphis, Rock of Ages, Beatlemania, Legends, 25th Annual..., Doubt, Race... MTC, 2nd StageCo, GuggWIP, Comedy:Salazar...
FOOD: All: ethnic to fusion, fine cuisine to fun food...barbeque to sushi to FourSeasons...(let's cook!)...healthy & splurge
VACATIONS: Resorts, In/Out US, Resorts, Conventions, Sight see, Relax, Visit
SPORTS: SWIM, Cycle, Walk, Ski-lite, Golf-lite, Occasional game at a stadium (4/1Opening Day Yankees-baseball, LB James-basketball) I'm Not a jock or Fan-atic.
BOOKS:Many! mostly non-fict: sci, tech, econ, biz, polit, psych, philos... I enjoy reading! It's relaxing
(Kindle, books !, newspapers, magazines, journals, Internet)
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