29Hayward, United States
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My self-summary
I'm just a dude in his late 20s looking for a partner. I try to be as honest as possible. I have discovered that if I try to hide or mask bits of the truth it will either be discovered in the end or cause enormous amounts of tension between myself and the other party.

So here's what's up woman of OKC: My life is not great right now. I'm struggling with depression. I have half of a BA in music and am taking a year off of school in order to work on myself. I do my best to do a little yoga and pilates everyday, I find that it helps ward off the depression. I do my best to use my brain on a daily basis, recently that has been more about reading maps and studying music than anything else.

I used think I wanted this perfect version of a girl who could 'fix' me, but I now know that she does not exist. I just want someone who is also on this crazy adventure we call life who will listen to me. I'm looking for a mutually beneficial relationship.

I dislike endless chatting on the OKC messenger. Yes I grew up with computers, but I also live in the real world. If you want to get to know me, let's get a cup of coffee.
What I’m doing with my life
Still figuring it out
I’m really good at
Singing, assessing situations, reading maps/navigating, playing cards, and listening.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I love the Ender's Game series. Asimov, Hitchhickers Guide. I'm currently reading The Caves of Steel.

Shows: House, Rowan Atkinson, old BBC comedies, Breaking Bad...

Music: They Might Be Giants, Most operas, lots of musical theater, disney, Beatles, Cake, Oldies, etc.

Food: I like good healthy food. Not a huge red meat guy, I lean more toward chicken and fish.
Six things I could never do without
The most obvious answer is my computer or my phone. But only because society has made it necessary to own these things.

That being said (apart from those stupid electronic devices):
-Music (my voice, my fingers, my sight, my hearing)
-My watch
-A deck of cards

Made that a little more complicated than it had to be.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What other people are thinking about.
On a typical Friday night I am
At home watching netflix usually.
You should message me if
You want to.
The two of us