47 Saint Charles, United States
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My self-summary
I don't fit easily in a box. A mix of old fashioned, hip and eclectic. Confident yet a tad insecure at times. Refined, but not pretentious. Hopeless optimist but needless worrier. Good manners, but occasionally mischievous goof. Giver of amazing hugs, all around go-doer, and a whole host of contradictions.

I have no expectations other than expanding and enriching my life with someone that I have a lasting chemistry with. Friendship has always worked best initially for me. I tend to be selective with the people I bring into my life, and prefer being around happy and positive people who have substance. I'm generous with my affection and emotional availability, but appreciate the importance of giving and having a little space. Complex Cabernets are awesome, pale ales and lagers are just as awesome. I know my way around the kitchen and love to cook. I love ethnic foods I can't pronounce and try new recipes occasionally that make it on the new recipe go to or never try again recipe.

I lose my keys. I've all but given up on learning how to fold a fitted bedsheet; I “fold” it differently every time. Family is important to me, and I am very close to them. I'm up to date on all my shots. I'm outdoorsy, but not considered a tree-hugger, more like a tree high-fiver. I clean up nice and am equally comfortable in an evening gown or work suit as I am in jeans and a tee shirt. Though you're most likely to find me in the latter. I make eye contact and I listen. I'm not always as clever as I think I am. I smell good. I like saying "thank you".

I used to think I had a type in mind when looking for a match, but that has all gone out the window...my "type" hasn't panned out too well. I have also learned that yes, dating a younger guy is somewhat fun, but it makes me feel more old and I'm don't like that old feeling. Sorry younger fellas.
What I’m doing with my life
Living it, loving it and questioning it.
I’m really good at
"I have no special talents. I am only passionately curious. Albert Einstein"
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love to read, I listen to music daily, I create art and one of the best compliments on my cooking is when a famous chef asked for my secret.
The six things I could never do without
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My kids, my future, what I want to do when I grow up.
On a typical Friday night I am
Nothing in my life is typical and I kinda like it that way. I like impromptu excursions as well as finely tuned planned out excursions.
You should message me if
If you like to laugh and smile. By the way I get a creepy feeling when I get emails from men with no pictures because you know what I look like and I have no clue what you look like; it adds a stalker/psycho path vibe to it. Just sayin.