I have good morals and values. I believe communication is important in a relationship. One of the most important things to me now is self-development, learning to accept things that one cannot change (other people), but most certainly seeking to change circumstances within one's power: by learning and practicing critical thinking, finding the crack to "get around," finding the fortitude to grow.
I am looking for an equal partner, a companion, a lover, and a friend. Someone who knows what love is and is ready for the work that goes along with maintaining a healthy relationship that is built on trust, respect, and honesty. Someone who could make me laugh, someone to share a bottle of Beaujolais over a leisurely dinner, someone to hold and touch and to whisper quietly with after the lights had been turned off.
Finally yet importantly, I am looking to meet someone emotionally available! Therefore, if you are just looking for strictly casual relationships or you are keeping people at arm's length as a defense against being hurt, then we probably are not a match.
I work from home and in the background I always have the '80 or the '90 channels on XM radio playing.
My taste in food is eclectic; I like real food shared with real people.
My Tempur Pedic
A cast iron pan