33Stevens Point, United States
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My self-summary
I am a playful guy(not in the misogynistic player way) just a kid at heart, I will try to find or make fun in most situations. Women come before most other priorities, although I have a complicated equation I reference when deciding how to prioritize people over other people. I’m also a dork and can be nerdy about some things as well, but am quite far from being socially inept or letting my geekiness hinder meeting and befriending new people. I’m not a nerd that you would be embarrassed to take some place. I do rock concerts, fancy dinners, camp outings, family gatherings and many other things. I can do sports gatherings, but I’m more into the social and experience of it than the actual game itself. Kind of like how tailgating can be fun even though the game hasn’t even started. I do not like to play with your emotions, though I do urge you not to mistake my kindness for more than what it is. I attempt to be as nice as I can to any one nice to me. I can be overly helpful and trusting if you don’t give me reason not to be. Above all, don’t read into my words any more than what I say. I am very picky with how I choose to my wording. If I say something, I’m not being shy about it, not trying to hide my true feelings; I usually mean it precisely as I say it. Thissssss, this may be a little confusing, so if you'd like, I can try to give you examples, but chances are if we're just having a simple conversation, you wouldn’t notice that character in me. I don’t like the term "hopeless romantic", but you might say that I am one. I can be incredibly passionate, caring and understanding. I can also not be that, I can be like a statue, showing little to no emotion at all, but you really have to push me to get that far. I'll try to be as good to you as I think you deserve, and most of the time, I think you deserve more than I can give so I’ll always try to keep being better to you.
What I’m doing with my life
In the end, it would be to have a loving family and make enough money to provide for said family. I am a family guy, but understand if you're not. I have some very loving family members that I would die for, and then I have family members who've given their best attempts to ruin my life. Just because someone is in your blood line doesn’t mean you have to love them. I love those who are or at least mostly were good to me. But right now, it’s pretty much just fun time. I work, I save, I aspire...but I’m in the middle for the time being, so trying to enjoy myself and get back into a happy-go-lucky lifestyle, responsibly so of course. I’m looking into going back to college for both science and education. Learn as much as I can then turn around and teach it all back.
I’m really good at
Above being a dork, I can be incredibly sweet. I need something to work with though. Romance is best personalized. There are generic sweetnesses, but I’d much rather tailor my kindness around a specific personality. I’ve had women wish that I was older, younger or even gay so they could get closer to me. That might sound odd, but I say that because my personality is one they like very much, but my potential of being a man like any other man is something they don’t want to worry about. They don’t need to worry about it, but I understand the caution. I have been invited out for girls nights on several occasions, chaperoned a drunken bachelorette party and am not a stranger to sleeping in a bed with a girl and being able to keep my hands to myself, drunk, sober or otherwise. The gay thing, that’s just girls having a greater trust for a man who's not trying to get in their paints. I would like to be inside your mind and heart above all else. Other than that, my personality is rather playful and childlike, but not irresponsible. I’ve been told times beyond count that I am wise beyond my years.
The first things people usually notice about me
That used to be my Mohawk, which I am considering again. I am currently growing out the afro, but its only at a few inches right now. I normally cut or change my hair every year or two, but pretty much limit those changes to short, long or Mohawk. You might notice my smile or laugh, you might see be balancing on something or climbing up something. You might notice that I ask a lot of questions. Not rudely or stupidly so, but out of curiosity and a partial understanding that desires to understand further.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Kingkiller trilogy by Pat Rothfuss, The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy series by Douglas Adams, the Ishmael trilogy by Daniel Quinn, The Farseer trilogy by Robin Hobb. The Devil's Dictionary by Ambrose Bierce and many more.

Music; I listen to everything but country and polka. Not saying they suck, I just don’t enjoy them. I have very eclectic taste. I listen to the radio from time to time, but I prefer unique songs. A good deal of my iPod titles are not in English and I take enjoyment in finding music that others know little about. (not a hipster) .

Movies: mostly action and thinker movies. SLC Punk, The Watchmen, Serenity & Firefly, Across the Universe. Fight Club, pretty much anything from PIXAR. Dont count out romance like The Great Gatsby, Host and others. I own hundreds of movies so it;s difficult to list the best.

Food: im a carnivore with a sweet tooth. I will try new foods, but please trust me when i tell you that i do not or will not like something. I'm what you might call a hypersensitive when it comes to my taste and can often taste foods that have been next to what im eating by their smell that has drifted on to it.
Six things I could never do without
Food, water, air, shelter, love, education. But those are basic needs for a human mind and body. If you wish to get a bit more personal: females is one. Family, friends, lovers…I just enjoy female company. I actually get upset if I haven’t hung out with a lady after about 3 days, but if you are a lady, you may never see that in me. I enjoy my media: games, books, movies & shows. Definitely love food, exercise is great too.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I think a lot about people, interactions, the mind. As with most people, mine makes incredible sense to me, but others do not. I try to understand what they see that I do not. I am well aware that a problem with my understanding is not always the fault of the explanation. I am limited in my understanding, but that does not me I will not attempt to anyway.
On a typical Friday night I am
I could be anywhere on a Friday night. Going out, staying in, at a show, out of town, biking, running, working out, reading, moving, cleaning…sleeping if I plan on staying up all night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’ve been told I’m the closest thing to a gay guy for a straight guy. This isn’t with mannerisms, language or any outward sign… its more in reference to how you can talk to me, what I can understand or relate to and how well I can listen with learning about you being my only goal.
You should message me if
You’d like to talk, or listen, or be Listened to.
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