35Pitt Meadows, Canada
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My self-summary
Under slow reconstruction.

I am poly but have only maintained my primary relationship for the last year. Currently not seeking but hope to resume again soon. When that happens I will update. I will likely be looking for sex-centric relationships that are complementary to my primary one. NO one offs. Physical chemistry is great but mental compatibility is more important. Kinky people to the front of the line.
What I’m doing with my life
Attempting to find full health and balance. Trying not to let the hard work of building my own business fall apart meantime.
I’m really good at
Sadly, I'm good at kicking my own ass, especially when I'm down. Not a skill I'd advise cultivating.
The first things people usually notice about me
You tell me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Confirmed bibliophile and book addict. I love used bookstores, more dates should happen in these. Just being around a large number of books makes me happy. Goodreads has made my addiction so much more fun to manage.

I used to work in a video store, when such things were a thing. I like stories so movies fall in there. I'm mostly bored by action flicks and horror. Cartoons are good, as are stupid comedies.

I love live theater as well, even musicals. I was a drama club kid at one point in my youth.

I've become more foodie since being with my current primary partner and have an appreciation for tasty foods of all kinds. I enjoy gardening at home for tastier food as well.

I like music, but it's not high on my interest list for a few reasons. I am out of practice but have been known to sing, and play alto and tenor sax, piano, and violin. I viscerally object to country music. Bleh.
Six things I could never do without
Intellectual stimulation
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Sex and play. Life and work. More sex and play.
On a typical Friday night I am
what is this 'typical' of which you speak?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
If I play with you, and it's good, I want to hear more from you, not less. Pursuit is delightful. My sexual preference is MORE.
You should message me if
-You have something interesting to say (Seriously...don't contact me if all you have to say is "Hey" or "Nice tits". I carry them around 24/7. I know they're nice. I also get several dozen one word messages a week. I just delete them now.)
-You have a brain in your head and aren't afraid to use it.
-You are creative and playful.
-You enjoy your kink and sex combined.
-You have a brain in your head and aren't afraid to use it. (Yes, this needs to be said twice)
The two of us