We are all trying to enter into intimate relationships for only one reason. We want to get our needs met. This is a good and healthy fact of life. Most people do not really know what they really really need. Thus, they spend a tremendous amount of time, money, and effort searching for that which they have not clearly defined. What are your needs? This is the question you must answer for yourself before you should try to find it. If you do not know your needs, do some work and find them. As a start, I recommend the following books: 1. His Needs Her Needs, 2. The Five Love Languages. 3. Mating In Captivity.
Some of the needs for my desired woman are below listed but, most of my needs, which are not listed, extend far beyond those herein written. My extended needs are not what would be considered “normal” to most people. However, I assure you, they are ethical and moral in accordance with natural law. Natural law states that we are allowed to seek our own life, liberty, and pursuit of happiness but, only to the point where it does not interfere with another person’s natural law. Natural law can be summed up as love and respect of all people and do no harm to anyone. If you are interested in finding out some of my needs, continue to read. If you wish to find out all of my needs, send me a message.
Who you are:
You are an emotionally strong, confident, demure, and gorgeous woman. You know who you are and what you want. You are in search of a man to whom you are able to totally give up control in the relationship. You are looking for a real loving masculine man who knows how to take the lead and will not have it any other way. One who shows you all the love in the world while taking care of you the way you need. The thought of this does sensual things to you that cannot be said out loud to anyone but him. You have not given up on the search for a man worthy of this honor. You fully understand and believe that the need to succumb, to surrender, to place all your trust and faith in your worthy man is a natural and useful instinct—despite assumptions to the contrary by our prevailing culture. Although women are persistently urged to believe that wanting a man to lead equates to subservience, instead of simply describing a role in a relationship. You know the fact that during the course of human history most relationships have been defined by the dynamic of a leader and a follower and this is lost on those who live unhappy lives of marital stress and personal dissatisfaction and can’t figure out why. You have an overwhelming need to succumb in all ways to him because he is your loving Leading man.
You are physically gorgeous because you love yourself enough to take great care of your body. You do not smoke and you work out on a regular basis. You are mentally superior because you love to read and seek knowledge. You are spiritually strong because you are forever seeking the Truth.
What am I looking for?
At first -
I am looking for great chemistry with a gorgeous, feminine, demure, and sexy female. If we grow into Long term, that will be great.
• Fit and muscular
• 6'1" tall, 220bs, blond hair and blue eyes.
• Some say I look like Daniel Craig. I will let you be the judge of that.
• I have scars on the left side of my face and left hand from an accident I was in when I was younger. This makes me ruggedly handsome :). If you have a scar fetish, I am your man.
• I work one fulltime job and another part time job
• Software Systems Analyst/Program Manager (Been with the same company for 20 years)
• BS in Nursing
• BS in Accounting
• BAS in IT Management
• AS in Nursing
• AA in General Studies