1carolinabbw
53 Chapin, United States
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My self-summary
I am a simple country girl, meaning I was reared on a farm, and it takes more than money and fancy cars to impress me. I work in the medical profession, and I am an animal lover. I enjoy country drives, weekend getaways, antique stores,good movies, golf, college football, spending time with family and friends, dining out and snuggling on the couch. I am a pretty good cook, not many people complain about what I make.
I am looking for a companion. Someone that knows how to treat a lady like a lady. I like for a man to be "strong" and make me feel safe and secure. I dont "need" a man to take care of me....but I LIKE for him to think he needs to take care of me. I think that all women love having a man make her feel loved and safe.
Update: 9/1/14. After being on here for awhile I have come to realize we are all lost. Either we don't know what we are looking for or we are looking for something that doesn't exist. I can't give what I don't have nor will I ask you to give what you are incapable of giving. So where does this leave us, searching for a friend and a companion that likes us in spite of our imperfections. Good luck in your quest!
What I’m doing with my life
Good question!

Trying to make a difference in the lives of other people!
I’m really good at
Making people laugh. For some reason, I open my mouth and my friends laugh....guess I am just silly at times.
I am a good cook, friend, and companion.
The first things people usually notice about me
My size...I am a big girl, and carry myself securely. My big brown expressive eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite movies include The Blind Side, Steel Magnolias, Bull Durham, Tin Cup, A River Runs Through It, A League of Their Own, to name a few.
I love country music and some pop/rock. I don't read often, rarely have quiet time for that but when I do read it is usually the latest in medical research in my specialty.
I enjoy live theater, ballet, opera, almost any type of artistic expression
I love Chinese, Mexican, Italian, and good ole southern food. Can't beat a great burger and fries either. Will try almost anything.
The six things I could never do without
Family
Friends
Love
Security
A sense of belonging
Hope
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to make the lives of the ones I love better.
On a typical Friday night I am
Out to dinner with family or friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
It is private....not posting it on the internet for the world to read!!! When you get to know me...you will know everything about me!
You should message me if
You want the whole shebang!!!!

I won't be your dirty secret
I won't be your cure-all pill
I won't run to fetch the water
Just to tumble down the hill

I won't be your Friday paycheck
I won't be the prize you flaunt
I won't be your Martha Stewart, baby
Or your all-night restaurant

I won't be your crutch to lean on
I won't wear stiletto heels
I won't walk a mile in your shoes
Just so I know how it feels

I won't be your obligation
I won't be your Barbie doll
I won't be the portrait of perfection
To adorn you wall

I won't be your lifetime girlfriend
I won't be just one of the guys
I won't be your mama's favorite
I refuse to be the last in line

But I will, I will, I will be your everything
If you make me feel like a woman should
I will, I will, I will be the whole shebang
You know I will...but

I won't be ignored
I won't be bored!
(paraphrased from Shedaisy's, The Whole Shebang)
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