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My self-summary
I'm at a point in my life where I'm happy and content with who I am, who I have become, and yet I'm looking forward to the 'NEXT CHAPTER' !! I would love to meet a 'special man' to share in that 'NEXT CHAPTER' ~ Could that be you ? :)

Friends have described me as having a great sense of humor, creative, kind, sensual, spiritual, conscious/aware, a blend of casual elegance and bohemian... and FUN! Still have that mischievous-youthful spirit very much alive (sometimes like to stir the pot a bit, in a good way:)

Would love to meet a man who is confident, strong yet gentle, with a 'youthful spirit', FUN . . . honest, with a sense of humor, intelligent, creative, stable, comfortable in his own body, conscious/aware, has done some 'inner work' (no major baggage, carry-on ok:), spiritual but not religiously dogmatic ~

I feel 'our priority' would be 'our special connection' plus that illusive element, chemistry. Our activities would organically evolve out of that and our mutual interests. It would be wonderful to meet someone where it FEELS like we are already friends or from the same 'soul family', a feeling of EASE, along with that magical, illusive element called 'chemistry' ~

I love and enjoy family, have two grown children who have children = grandchildren, they are wonderful and great fun!! (most of whom live in So. Calif)

If you feel a resonance, a connection, please send a message with MORE than a few sentences, so I know you are FOR REAL :)

What I’m doing with my life
Being self employed and semi-retired, I enjoy the luxury (most days) of quiet mornings with a cup of tea, meditation, taking a walk or yoga. It really sets the tone for the day ..

I receive much satisfaction from 'helping and inspiring' people while they journey through challenging 'life transitions' ... through my skills/gifts of compassionate and intuitive guidance/ counseling and energy healing.

I have also worked (volunteered) with the elderly in an assisted living where I accidentally created something called 'Smile Therapy' and amazing things happened in that group!! :) When I started it it was a joke with the Activities Director, I didn't even know what Smile Therapy meant ... but I showed up the first day and it went on for THREE YEARS!! :)

I enjoy writing, (sometimes with a local Women's Writing Group), nurturing my plants, even 'weeding' as I love having my hands in the moist soil/dirt; sometimes play with 'paints, pastels ... colored markers, crayons' !! Often making a mess, sometimes an 'abstract piece of art' :)

I am grateful for having been involved in HAI and Tantra, which has expanded my ability to relate in a deeper and more compassionate way on all levels.
I’m really good at
Being at ease with most people, in most situations
Creating a relaxing and inviting home environment
Organizing and planning events
Being open and flexible
Laughing and smiling
Helping others, listening
Cuddling, Touching, Kissing ...
Emotional and physical intimacy
Being very present ...
INSPIRING people ....
The first things people usually notice about me
My blue eyes, my smile ... I smile easily, as I'm usually happy inside and that's how it shows on the outside. Have been told 'You're very easy to be with' ~~
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Mistress of Spices, Eat Pray Love, The Tortilla Curtain, The Thorn Birds, Tao Te Ching, Tantric Quest, Stillness Speaks,
I Remember Union, Pride & Prejudice, The Artist's Way, Velveteen Rabbit, Anais Nin's writings, Mary Oliver, anything Rumi or Hafiz ...

Movies: Somethings Gotta Give, Out of Africa (Meryl Streep in anything!), Julia, The Razor's Edge, Wanderlust, Midnight in Paris, It's Complicated, Pride & Prejudice, The Big Lebowski, The Big Chill, Defending Your Life, Pay it Forward, The Shawshank Redemption, Pretty Woman, The Fisher King, Sophie's Choice, The Notebook, The Green Mile, Gandhi, Defending Your Life, The Intern, Brooklyn .... and many more ~~~

TV: NETFLIX, The Voice, Downton Abbey (when it was still on:), re-runs of Sex and the City, Seinfeld,... other than than not recalling much else, UNLESS I can find a good movie ...

Music: Depends on the mood I'm in ... Chris Botti, Enya,
Michael Buble, Maroon 5, Eric Clapton, Sting, Streisand, VAN Morrison, Spirit Spa, Carlos Nakai, Santana, Fleetwood Mac, CSNY, Graham Nash, Krishna Das, Sarah McLachlan, Jennifer Warnes, Adele, Rod Stewart (American Classics), Nora Jones, Sinatra, Tony Bennett. Most all Soft Rock, Kirtan, some ambient or world music, reggae ... flute & harp...

Food: At home I eat pretty simply - Veggies (organic), grains, and fish, chicken or turkey.

Dining out: Thai, Chinese, Indian, Italian (things I don't usually cook at home)

***Confess to being a romantic, enjoy, candlelight, a fireplace, candles, flowers, beautiful music, dancing (good dancer:), especially slow dancing in the living room, melting kisses - long warm embraces - cuddling, spooning ~~~
Six things I could never do without
Quality time with friends and family

Humor, Laughter, Smiles

Nature... love being near 'WATER elements' of any kind!!

Human touch, affection, intimacy

Love, loving and being loved. The primary joy of LIFE ~~

Quiet times to enjoy and recharge ~

Relationships/friendships, both short and long term, as well as friends and family, all of whom I am grateful for.

Of course, I could not live without air, shelter, food, etc but feel this question is referring to those things that are 'aside' from the 'essentials' for basic survival.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I actually enjoy times when my mind is 'quiet' ... However, I sometimes have fun wondering what Life has in store for my Next Chapter ... :)
On a typical Friday night I am
Typical? You might find me watching a movie at home by myself, having dinner with a friend, attending a gathering/event with kindred spirits, reading, or taking a late night walk, or on my MacBook ~~
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Mmm ... funny, I can't think of anything to write, right here :)
You should message me if
IF you have a PHOTO posted ;-)
If you are 'AVAILABLE' ~ (Please unmarried men ONLY ... men who are single, unattached and available:)
If you have READ the above, and feel we might have a connection ....

P.S. It's VERY RARE I go on the CHAT. I prefer to start with receiving a 'message', with MORE than just a 'few' words .... Thank you!!

PLEASE NOTE**** As you may have read above, I don't drink- you don't need to be a non-drinker, but if you drink 'daily' or 'often', I'm likely not your girl:)
ALSO .... ***Cigarette smoking would be a 'deal-breaker' . . .
The two of us