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My self-summary
I'm a pretty shy but caring guy. I value honesty above most else. I like someone who can make me think, but I love someone who can make me laugh.

I'm an atheist, but that doesn't define me. I respect people who respect other people, and I enjoy a good debate.
What I’m doing with my life
I love what I do for a living (IT Management) but most people would find it pretty boring. It fulfills and inspires me though.

When I am not busy geeking out at work I enjoy drinking, cooking and eating (in that chronological order). I love feeding people and on most any night I'd prefer to be surrounded by good friends enjoying full bellies and a good drink or three. I try to eat locally whenever I can. I'm realistic though; you can't always eat local.

I enjoy photography (a lot) and am always looking for things to shoot. I probably drive people crazy stopping every two minutes to take a photo of some seemingly-inane object, but most people indulge me. If you're the type to do this, let's go get lost somewhere. I particularly love shooting at Disney, as everything there tends to be so damn photogenic (I bet they did that on purpose).

I enjoy going out and really enjoy seeing live music. I also enjoy hiking and kayaking, though I am pretty slow at both and can't do extremely long distances.

In my 'spare' time I enjoy woodworking and building furniture.
I’m really good at
Being a total goof ball, making bad puns (is there any other kind?), worrying too much about things I can't control, being sweet, seeing the beauty that others walk past (usually through a camera lens), eating too much, drinking too much, being a sweet drunk, fixing stuff, breaking stuff, fixing stuff again, debating, pissing off conservatives, taking care of my loved ones, and (hopefully) making the world a little better. Seriously, buy a hungry person some food some day. It feels great.

I love music, and I play the drums (pretty badly).
The first things people usually notice about me
Um, that I am a middle-aged white guy? I don't know.

I have a beard, does that count?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Harry Potter, Hunger Games, some
Dan Brown, most crime novels and historic thrillers, recent Stephen King. Not very deep stuff :) I also love reading non-fiction.

Movies: Inception and most all Christopher Nolan films (especially the Dark Knight series), anything Pixar (I sometimes cry at the end of Cars), Food Inc. and Forks Over Knives, both of which made me a better human being. Favorite bad movie is Captain Ron. I enjoyed all of the Harry Potter movies just as much as the books (no, I don't care that they were different), Tarantino, especially Inglorious Basterds, Pulp Fiction and Django. 007 (Daniel Craig is the best).

Shows: I don't watch much TV at all anymore, but when I do it's often for silly stuff I like Family Guy, Archer and Top Gear. For cooking shows I enjoy Good Eats, Molto Mario and No Reservations. I really love documentaries. Reality TV makes me lose hope for humanity. I avoid it at all costs.

Music: I like a lot of stuff. Mostly anything. My Pandora is all over the place.

I'm an omnivore but I love vegetarian and vegan food every bit as much as meat.
Six things I could never do without
In no particular order:

- Good food
- Good drink
- Good friends
- Good times
- Good music
- My wife and daughter
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to change the world a teeny tiny bit.
On a typical Friday night I am
Enjoying a good meal and some drinks with the people I love. Most of the time I am cooking it myself first, but I do eat out too.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am polyamorous and am looking to meet new
friends, with the possibility of 'benefits'.

Sex, or the potential of sex, is NOT a pre-requisite of getting to
know me though :)
You should message me if
If you put Sriracha on your Sriracha.

If you think you can beat me at Mario Kart.

If we have things in common, or if you just think you'd like to get to know me.
The two of us