61 Cleveland, United States
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My self-summary
Be kind ladies I just had a six month relationship end a week ago. I thought it could of been my rest of my life relationship. I am sure you know what that feels like. I am not sure I am looking for anything. So if you email or whatever please understand I am just interested in some conversation at this point. Maybe at some point coffee, dinner or the theater. But that won't be soon. Don't take it personally if all I feel I can offer is talk.

I am a positive person looking to the future. My friends say I am a kind, respectful, gentle and a very nice person. I don't argue or verbally fight with those I care about. Life is too short every day should be spent being positive. I am spirtual and meditate to stay balanced. . I was married for 25 years, divorced 8 and I have four wonderful sons in various stages of adulthood. The missing piece is a loving partner. I believe forever relationships are possible but right now I am looking to meet someone nice for a casual relationship. I am prepared to offer the right person unconditional love. It is time to leave the past behind us and enjoy the happiness of today and tommorrow. Taking all that life has to offer one day at a time. And who knows where things can end up? I don't want to rush things I want to get things right.

I love animals. Cats and Dogs give so much and ask for so little in return. Us humans could learn something from them. I volunteered for a couple years at an animal shelter when I first retired. We are not very good in our treatment of the planet. We need to give back more and take less.

I want to find one special woman to spend time with. I do not enjoy dating. But it is the only way for us to meet. It is easier to just be alone then to be alone with the wrong person. But we are all still here so let's have hope we can find the happiness we deserve.
What I’m doing with my life
At this point in my life I am looking for happiness. Life is short each day should include a smile, a hug and a kiss.. ( the order doesn't matter the person your with does. ) I have an internet business in my retirement. Some weeks are busy some are not. I am flexible with my time so we can go to the pool on a MONDAY afternoon, dinner on TUESDAY FOR sushi, WED IS Ladies Choice, Breakfast in bed Thursday then its the weekend.. shows, dinner, dancing, theater, yard sales, movies etc. etc. What I'm saying is if you still work thats fine, retired fine, weekends only works, if you have kids at home your worth waiting for. I have no boundries or anchors. At this point I am happy to be a great friend to a special lady or more if we really click. I don't believe in one night stands so lets get to know each other. It would be nice to get out of the cold and into the warm weather for a vacation in the winter. In front of a fire with a cup of hot cider would be very nice. Could you be the one to share some time with? I am enjoying my life one day at a time would you care to join me?
I’m really good at
Listening. Being a trusted friend. Helping people work through difficult situations. Respecting other people wishes. Making people feel good about themselves. Staying balanced and centered in a difficult world.
The first things people usually notice about me
I am very positive. I'm growing my hair long like back in the 70's. ( growing it for a wigs for kids with cancer program ) Most importantly when we are together you will be the only person in the room. I will give you 100% of my attention. I'm a gentleman who opens your door and never lets you pay.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
House, Criminal Minds, NCIS, Bones, 2 1/2 Men ( with Charlie ) ... Movies WOW Sleppless in Seattle, When Harry Met Sally, Hangover and anything you want to see. Movies are (ladies choice )Enjoy all foods.... Books...hmm anything by John Grisham or Robin Cook ... Music 70's Rock 80's light Rock. new age. Rod Stewarts American Songbooks and anything Broadway, Dance Troupes from modern to Ballet. Phantom & Les Miserables were my favorite theater productions. Can'wait for the movie dec 15 2012.. want to go? Can Hugh Jackman really sing?
The six things I could never do without
My Sons
My Friends
Roof over my head
a loving relationship
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why we seem to meet the right person at the wrong time and the wrong person at the right time. Will we ever meet the right person at the right time? Just thinking...............
On a typical Friday night I am
Home cooking dinner or going out to dinner. Would you like dinner by candlelight? Or maybe a Movie, A walk in the Park or slow dancing to our favorite songs in a parking lot in the middle of nowhere.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
If your the right one for me I am willing to do whatever it takes. Even if it means waiting for several years for us to be together completely. You wil be worth waiting for. Do you know who you are?
You should message me if
If you think we have enough in commom to meet. If you think early days in a relationship are easily spent with coffee, conversation and maybe dinner. My ultimate goal is a loving relationship filled with honesty, caring, kindness, respect, trust and love. One day with the right person is better then a lifetime with the wrong one. If you agree message me.