4u-i-seek
53 Hawthorne, United States
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My self-summary
The kind of relationship I am seeking?
Hmm… How about something like this:

With the right person, anything can be fun because we like to be together, laughing and joking around with each other. I’m looking for chemistry on all levels, connecting in mental, physical, emotional, and spiritual ways, where we can be open, honest, with no hidden agendas, compassionate, understanding, considerate, thoughtful, reasonable, forgiving, and having realistic expectations…that kind of relationship would be worth it because it would be fun and very meaningful...soulful. If we don’t connect that way, it’s not worth it because we won’t have any passion, intimacy, or commitment down the road.

Good communication skills are also essential; if we can’t have the courage to completely share our thoughts, feelings and intentions, then we can’t really create a close relationship. How could someone understand, be supportive, and help you to get what you want or need, if they don’t even know the real you? Of course it takes risk, but the alternative is to never have a true connection with someone.

For me, my life is about my close relationships. It comes down to the fact that I believe people are more important than things; their happiness is more important than ego, or having to be right. It’s about cooperation and making life work for all concerned, rather than competition, taking advantage, or selfishness. I also find it is important to have a good balance between being straightforward, knowing what you want, being serious about your goals, and at the same time, being positive, lighthearted, having a sense of humor, and being able to laugh at yourself, and the silly things we all have to go through.

When I was younger, I remember thinking, “If I just had ____ in my life, then I would be happy”, but I soon realized that there’s nothing missing, I'm complete as is. The longing in my heart wasn't there because I need to get something; it’s there because I need to give something, share something, and that’s why I’m here on this site. I'm seeking the one who wants to share this ride with me.

If you relate and appreciate what I’m saying, please don’t be shy, or feel limited by “the way things are supposed to be done”, feel free to send me a message. We’re both taking the time to be on this site, and I would hate to think we didn't find each other because I somehow didn't find your profile.

Best of luck!
What I’m doing with my life
Breathing, dreaming, living, and loving...
I’m really good at
Writing songs, performing music, photography, cooking, sports, listening, being philosophical, and giving meaningful advice that is actually appreciated (or so I’m told).
The first things people usually notice about me
I don't know, I'm not them.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite Books- I read spiritual, new age, self help subject matter.
Favorite Movies- Wonderful Life and Matrix (strangely related).
Favorite Music- All types.
Favorite Food- Italian, Japanese, Indian, Thai,
The six things I could never do without
Coffee
Guitars
Intimacy
Faith
Love
Music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
If the one I'm looking for is reading this right now.
On a typical Friday night I am
With family, friends, or out and about.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
It's so private that apparently I don't even know it.
You should message me if
You can hit the send button (just kidding).
You want to give it your all to create a great relationship.
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