29Portland, United States
Join today
Find great matches with our advanced matching system!
Join today
Find great matches with our advanced matching system!
My self-summary
Curious, thoughtful, and snarky. Caught somewhere between normal and nerd. Nerd meaning I love to quote movies and TV in conversation, I enjoy learning/fun facts, and I can be a teensy bit of a grammar nazi. I'm not a gamer, but I definitely have a huge adoration for that fantasy wonder that is Game of Thrones... don't judge!

Things I like: Visual media (fancy phrase I made up for movies and TV haha). Developmental and clinical psychology. Yoga. Tennis. Kayaking. Going to good shows/concerts. Dancing of all kinds (swing, blues and salsa mostly, but I'd really like to get back into tap and tango at some point). Scottish Fold cats. Seeing plays in Ashland during the summer with my family. Trivia-type and verbal-type board games, like Taboo and Trivial Pursuit. Playing bridge (the card game- NOT just for old people). Compulsively making to-do lists in my Google calendar. Occasionally appreciating/making connections with art. Engaging in philosophical conversations with little kids. Singing my heart out in the car and not worrying (too much) about whether the people around me think I'm ridiculous. Also, private karaoke rooms with friends are the best.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm an ABA therapist at a clinic serving children with autism. I love working with the kids, even though they often ignore or misunderstand my sarcastic jokes :) I'm also finishing my masters thesis in psychology research on the side. Thinking about an eventual doctorate in clinical psychology, and hoping to work with kids alone or with both kids and their parents. I basically want to be "Supernanny the psychologist" when I grow up...
I’m really good at
recognizing faces and remembering where I've seen them before... usually :) I watch a lot of TV and movies, so that makes it easier to play this game often. P.S. You should watch this documentary with John Cleese called The Human Face. Yes, you. It's chock full of psychological awesomeness and dorky British humor, which are both huge plusses in my book.
The first things people usually notice about me
Who knows. I'm not a mind reader, though a psychologist is probably the closest thing there really is to one...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Snow Falling on Cedars, East of Eden, Sula, Man's Search For Meaning by Viktor Frankl... I want to read more. Please provide suggestions.

I'm a non-pretentious movie-phile. Tops (but there are OH so many more...): The 7-Up Series, The 1940's House, Beasts of the Southern Wild, Company (2007), Donnie Darko, Easter Parade, Funny Girl, High Fidelity, Lady & the Tramp, Legally Blonde, Mad Hot Ballroom, Moliere, Mary Poppins, Monty Python's Life of Brian, Ms. Doubtfire, Pirates of Penzance, BBC's Pride and Prejudice, Proof, Sabrina (1954), Sense and Sensibility, Some Like It Hot, Stranger Than Fiction, To Be and To Have, Tootsie, Troop Beverly Hills, Up!, Up in the Air, and When Harry Met Sally.

TV: Gilmore Girls is my high school soul, but the revival truly and utterly butchered it. More current (and untainted) loves: THE OFFICE (obsessed!), Game of Thrones, Outlander, Forensic Files, Girls (Season 1 only, pretty much), Sex and the City, Law & Order SVU, What Not To Wear, Criminal Minds, Anthony Bourdain shows, Ace of Cakes, Top Chef Masters (Rick Bayless and Jonathan Waxman are adorbs), My Cat from Hell, and Portlandia, obvs.

Adding comedians, because I love good comedy: Louie CK, Amy Schumer, Steve Carell, Tim Minchin, Jim Gaffigan, Maria Bamford, Anna Kendrick, Emma Stone, Ellen Degeneres, Justin Timberlake, Demetri Martin, Aziz Ansari, Bill Cosby, Robin Williams, Billy Crystal. Please send new suggestions anytime.

Music: Singable/danceable music is the best, and I am entirely unashamed of loving cheesy oldies. But I also appreciate music with more substance- always open new suggestions. Some faves: Metric, Garbage, Fleet Foxes, The Raveonettes, First Aid Kit, Silversun Pickups, The Black Keys, The XX, Pomplamoose... getting new mix CD's from friends is one of my favorite things.

Food: I'm a pretty picky eater, but I'm workin' on it. I used to say "I don't believe in acquired tastes," but the whole developing-vitamin-deficiencies thing makes it difficult to hold strong to that belief.
Six things I could never do without
1. Contacts or fashionable glasses (necessary for daily functioning.)
2. Friends, family, and social support in general.
3. Cashmere sweaters. Wearing a comfy sweater is like a full day hug.
4. Yoga or dancing. Stress-relieving and fun.
5. Humor, preferably the witty, intelligent, edgy kind.
6. Motivation. I don't know where I'd be without it, in any part of my life.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
a balanced mixture of important things and things that are completely silly. Like: my future, and why every main character in Disney movies has at least one absent parental figure. Note: I don't think about the latter very often, just in case you were wondering... haha.
On a typical Friday night I am
I'm just as happy to go out on a weeknight. Who needs sleep anyway? I've also been known to have movie marathons or cleaning frenzies on weekend evenings... it's all about what's going on when and my mood. But when there is free evening time, it's often spent catching up with friends or dancing. Or Netflix chill time, because... yeah. Such is life.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
That's a strange question, which I think I will skip. Take home message: I'm a pretty open person, but I'm not going to divulge my life story on this thing.

...Alternatively: I like 90's country music, and some newer stuff too. It was the only kind of music my family ever exposed me to, save for ABBA, James Taylor, and movie musicals. I (kind of) wish I was kidding.

Also, I suspect I may have a mild audio processing disorder haha. I hate not being able to hear what people right next to me are saying at loud venues!
You should message me if
you feel so inclined :) More seriously though, if you are any moderately-comprehensive combination of the following: thoughtful and considerate, witty and funny, athletic and energetic, goal-oriented and driven, intelligent and introspective... maybe even slightly on the neurotic/edgy side... and you are a good mixture of child-at-heart and responsible, independent adult.
The two of us