5thColumn
60 Seattle, United States
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My self-summary
What you might be about to read is as close to the truth of who I am as I can make it. But to cut to the chase I thought I should preface this by stating succinctly that what I am looking for is someone smart and attractive.

Smart enough to be attracted to me.

Good looking enough to be attractive to me.

'Seems simple, doesn't it?

I tread the middle way, between realism and idealism. What I am confronted by when gazing in the mirror each morning is certainly no movie-star visage and that number 60 will continue to climb, (if I'm lucky that is.) But these are circumstances, and what I chose to define myself by are the choices I make, not the circumstances under which I labor. I believe we are subject to two conditions in this life: circumstance and choice. Whether or not circumstance has smiled upon you, what choices have you made?

This online dating thing holds great promise yet is often derailed by the introduction of the human element to the equation. The Profile gives a bit of a back-story, (a peek behind the veil, as it were) but the veracity remains subjective. I've had more than one friend tell me that I'm too honest in my description of myself here; not suggesting that I lie about myself but that I should leave more unsaid. They may be right, (I may be doing just that right now.)

I look at potential romantic relationships in very much the same way that I always have.  I do not care about the amount of money you have or make; I care about who you are, what you think about, the amount of work you've done on yourself, your level of excitement about your life.

I'm smart, educated, opinionated, and experienced. I live the life I envisioned and worked hard to attain. I passed through the insecurities of my 20's, the uncertainties of my 30's, the realities of my 40's, came into my own in my 50's and now find myself poised on the edge of my next great adventure.  I will die with dreams, not regrets.

I knew a long time ago that I was not going to be happy in a 9-to-5 life so I pursued a career as an entrepreneur. It's been great; a bit hard at times but for the most part I got paid to do things I love and made a comfortable living doing it. I've managed to amass the requisite middle-class possessions, (house, car, savings) without compromising my integrity or imagination.

All in all, I'm very happy with my life; still, it could be made better in the company of the right woman. THAT, however, is a tall order because that person is going to have to attract me physically, hold me intellectually, excite me emotionally and inspire me spiritually.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a self-employed entrepreneur which means I'm always at work and on vacation simultaneously; a condition which suits me. I have all the time in the world to focus on what's important to me.
I’m really good at
Appreciating how good I have it.

Being a friend.

Backing a trailer for some reason.

I'm a good listener, 'pretty good talker.

Appreciating people, places and things for what they are.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm friendly and pay attention to what they are saying, (as opposed to what I'm going to say next...'know what I mean?)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
A short list:

Vonnegut, Wim Wenders, The Big Bang Theory, the song I'm currently listening to, (or playing) and Thai...no wait, Mexican! Italian? Chinese?

(All answers subject to change without notice.)
The six things I could never do without
The Golden Ratio; open, heartfelt communication; the possibility of love; growth and change; music; motorcycles.

(This list reflects just how good life is; everything listed is a luxury!)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
All the great people I've been blessed to know and where they might be now.

My next appointment.

Why something that's not working isn't working and what I need to do to get it working again.
On a typical Friday night I am
I don't have typical Friday nights anymore. Sometimes I'm playing or seeing a show; a nice dinner out perhaps or a late drink and gnosh at the end of a longish day.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Can be pried out of me face to face.
You should message me if
You're the kind of woman who makes other men wonder what you see in me and makes other women wish they'd seen it first.
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