5thColumn
61Seattle, United States
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My self-summary
I tread the middle way, between realism and idealism. I believe we are subject to two conditions in this life: circumstance and choice. Whether or not circumstance has smiled upon you, what choices have you made?

This online dating thing holds great promise; the Profile giving a bit of a back-story, (a peek behind the veil, as it were) but with the advent of the "Swipe left/Swipe right" paradigm we're all back to the superficialities of High School without the day to day contact that might give one some idea of anothers' character.

I look at potential romantic relationships in very much the same way that I always have; initial attraction strengthened or diminished by interaction. It's that first conversation that is most important, (for me at least.) Like anyone, I can't describe all that I find compelling in a potential partner but I can say this: I don't care about the amount of money you have or make; I care about who you are, what you think about, the amount of work you've done on yourself and your level of excitement about your life.

I'm smart, educated, opinionated and experienced. I live the life I envisioned and worked hard to attain. I passed through the insecurities of my 20's, the uncertainties of my 30's, the realities of my 40's, came into my own in my 50's and now find myself poised on the edge of my next great adventure. I will die with dreams, not regrets.

I knew a long time ago that I was not going to be happy in a 9-to-5 life so I made it up as I went along. It's been great; a bit hard at times but for the most part I got paid to do things I loved and made a comfortable living doing it. I've managed to amass the requisite middle-class possessions, (house, car, savings) without compromising my integrity or imagination.

All in all, I'm very happy with my life but it would be better in the company of the right woman.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm self-employed which means I'm always at work and on vacation simultaneously; a condition which suits me. I have all the time in the world to focus on what's important to me.
I’m really good at
Appreciating how good I have it.

Being a friend.

Backing a trailer for some reason.

I'm a good listener, 'pretty good talker.

Appreciating people, places and things for what they are.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm friendly and pay attention to what they are saying, (as opposed to what I'm going to say next...'know what I mean?)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
A short list:

Vonnegut, Wim Wenders, The Big Bang Theory, the song I'm currently listening to, (or playing) and Thai...no wait, Mexican! Italian? Chinese?

(All answers subject to change without notice.)
Six things I could never do without
Accepting the requirements for physical existence as a given I'll say...

Friends

Love

Hope

Change

Escape
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My next adventure.

My next appointment.

Downsizing.

Why something that's not working isn't working and what I need to do to get it working again.

How much I'm going to miss the Obama's and being represented on the world stage by a thoughtful, well-spoken man.

Where this new regime is going to try to take us and whether or not we can ever get back to any semblance of integrity. I fear we may have gone a bridge too far.
On a typical Friday night I am
I don't have typical Friday nights. Sometimes I'm playing or seeing a show; a nice dinner out perhaps or a late drink and gnosh at the end of a longish day.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Can be pried out of me face to face.
You should message me if
You're the kind of woman who makes other men wonder what you see in me and makes other women wish they'd seen it first.
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