So I am looking for making friends first and then seeing where that leads...building friendship over a period of time (not a one or two days friendship not NSA or FWB). Obviously, into true quality relationships no matter to what degree they may be 8-). I believe that a true friendship serves as the best basis / core for any longer term relationship that is sustainable. Life is hard and stressful enough - I just need the fun, genuine / charming, caring, warm, sweet / chill no stress friend now. Of course I want the ideal - romance and love but I need someone patient who sees value in getting to know me and vice versa. Maybe this is why I have watched when Harry met Sally at least 100 times and know all the lines.
Love most cultural events especially dance- ballet, modern dance / Paul Taylor. Alvin Ailey, broadway plays, films, foreign films, architecture, interior design and on and on.... Also love yoga, Pilates, and dance class at my gym (i try to gym it 3 times / week ) and tennis (but haven't played in a while). Like going to most sports events (no boxing or nascar though ha!) I love the beach 🐬and would still love to learn to surf or take real sailing lessons someday. I grew up in Annapolis MD so love that stuff. Some of my favorite places in the US are Newport, RI and Naples, FL.
fantasies About Nacho Figueras (hey he is HOT STUFF - and if you look like him message me) and wishing I was Nigella Lawson's BFF so I could become the domestic goddess chef she is and meet all her friends etc etc (she is sexy!)...seriously though I think about how I can improve myself intellectually, professionally, culturally, physically, spiritually etc. also I think about how I can help my mom a lot (she is not in a wheelchair but has some severe disabilities). I also do what I can and think about how I can help the NYC community.