42Oxnard, United States
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My self-summary
I'm super rad and fun! Essentially looking for a local female to go do fun activities with, ideally a sort of fwb situation (though I kinda hate that term). A special activity friend, if you will! I am active, enjoy all the normal things others enjoy, but I mostly lean toward the geeky things in life. Come hang out and have a great time! Also, I can't see if you like me, so just send a message and say hi :)
What I’m doing with my life
Working, first and foremost. Raising my littles to become awesome people. Art-y stuff and music-y stuff when I can.
I’m really good at
stuff! And things!
The first things people usually notice about me
My tail. Maybe my horns.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Hrm! Let's go with currents since I personally loathe seeing long lists of someone's CD collection or extensive library of romance novels...plus my "favorites" are many and varied.
The Words: Currently technical manuals and slices of this and that. I really really do love to read for leisure, but I find the time to do so eludes me lately.
The Pictures: Recently watched Fantastic Planet. It was...er, fantastic! Totally weird and deep, and it has giant blue people with red eyes in it.
The Televisional: None, no time, though I do catch movies here and there.
The Tunes: Being a musician I can appreciate all forms of music, but my first true love is metal. My current go-to is Absu :)
The Eats: Almost everything I cook is healthy and tasty, sometimes simple and sometimes terribly complicated. I do enjoy almost EVERYTHING and consider the art of food one of my passions.
Six things I could never do without
> My two incredible children
And then, in no particular order:
> A grill
> Smiles
> Physical intimacy
> A musical instrument of any sort
> A nice black fine-point pen and something to sketch on.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Space travel. Multi-dimensional beings.

I have any number of random inventions floating around in there. I keep a detailed log on these :)
On a typical Friday night I am
It all depends on my schedule. My Friday night is like others' Thursday night. If I'm kid free, I'd love to be hanging out with you! If not, the kids and I spend time together.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've discovered my capacity for kink is nearly botttomless, and that I excel as a dom. Subs, come on out and say hi ;)
You should message me if
you are rad and like to hang out with an awesome person who laughs a lot and values the positives. I live in Ojai, so if you are anywhere near the area come play with me. I am totally approachable and chill, so get in touch! :)
The two of us