42Oxnard, United States
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My self-summary
I'm super rad and fun! Essentially looking for someone fun, friendly, positive who has the ultimate potential of creating something real, solid and long lasting. I am active, enjoy all the normal things others enjoy, but I mostly lean toward the geeky things in life. Come hang out and have a great time! Also, I can't see if you like me, so just send a message and say hi :)
What I’m doing with my life
Working, first and foremost. Raising my littles to become awesome people. Art-y stuff and music-y stuff when I can.
I’m really good at
Empathizing. Making others feel really good physically, mentally and emotionally. I also excel (when properly motivated) in all forms of art and music. The creation of delicious and healthy foods.

Puns, which I've found to be the most accurate litmus test for both intelligence and personal compatibility.

The anthropomorphization of every day objects.

I'm REALLY good at procrastinating and focusing on the minutia to the detriment of the big picture, but then, it's nice to have something to work on, isn't it?
The first things people usually notice about me
I have a swagger, apparently. Also, I am usually smiling.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Hrm! Let's go with currents since I personally loathe seeing long lists of someone's CD collection or extensive library of romance novels...plus my "favorites" are many and varied.
The Words: Currently technical manuals and slices of this and that. I really really do love to read for leisure, but I find the time to do so eludes me lately.
The Pictures: Recently watched Fantastic Planet. It was...er, fantastic! Totally weird and deep, and it has giant blue people with red eyes in it.
The Televisional: Oh, Game of Thrones. How I love thee. Also - Always Sunny, Arrested Development, Curb Your Enthusiasm.
The Tunes: Being a musician I can appreciate all forms of music, but my first true love is metal. My current go-to is Absu :)
The Eats: Almost everything I cook is healthy and tasty, sometimes simple and sometimes terribly complicated. I do enjoy almost EVERYTHING and consider the art of food one of my passions.
Six things I could never do without
> My two incredible children
And then, in no particular order:
> A grill
> Smiles
> Physical intimacy
> A musical instrument of any sort
> A nice black fine-point pen and something to sketch on.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Space travel. Multi-dimensional beings.

I have any number of random inventions floating around in there. I keep a detailed log on these :)
On a typical Friday night I am
It all depends on my schedule. My Friday night is like others' Thursday night. If I'm kid free, I'd love to be hanging out with you! If not, the kids and I spend time together.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm not so sure I'm willing to admit anything privately here in this public forum. In person I am an open book, and will absolutely surprise you.
You should message me if
you are fun and cute and like to hang out with an awesome person who laughs a lot and values the positives. I live in Ojai, so if you are anywhere near the area come play with me. I am totally approachable and chill, so get in touch! :)

ProTip: I generally avoid those with snapchat filters applied to their pictures, or who hold Meyers-Briggs test results in high regard.
The two of us