99GX
37 Dobbs Ferry, United States
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My self-summary
Was waiting for the girl next door, but she never came....so here I am in this vast new world of dating....

I guess I can give you a little view of what Im about, but as we all know words arent enough to define what and who we are but here goes..... So here we all are in an unusual area of finding the possibility of a simple date, maybe some are here for entertainment or maybe some of us are on here to figure out what this dating world is all about, maybe through experience we can figure this place out together.

I feel like I need to paint you a picture of who I am, but in reality the only way to really know someone is through real interaction, deep conversation and reality. So instead of this 2d profile maybe we can take it 3d and see how we do in person than through words written back and forth in black and white.

Living just outside nyc,
thoughtful,
dreamer,
creating art,
creative ideas,
savvy,
making others laugh
thinker,
thoughtful
don't like liars,
thrive on honesty
trust
playing guitar
good at making pancakes,
peanut butter and jelly sandwiches,
avocados
making wine,
making art,
listening and attentive to details,
absorbing useless facts, as always a work in progress..... More to come soon. Anything else just ask!
What I’m doing with my life
Right now opening up a small business dealing in kitchen design, also just started on a second new job this august, so even though im busy with many different things I can still find time to date. Putting a website together to showcase my art, once its up I will link it here so you can see a glimpse of some of what I have been working on the last year, let me say its a bit different then just paint on a canvass ...
I’m really good at
making people think.......keeping a conversation going for hours and hours, making others smile...keeping to do lists near by, of course I can remember what I need to do its just makes it easier to cross something off after you know its finished. Giving massages.
The first things people usually notice about me
When we meet you can let me know.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Movies: Edward Scissorhands, Basquiat, The Goonies, Exit Through the Gift Shop, Whats Eating Gilbert Grape, 21, Legend, Lucas, The Radiant Child, Documentaries and Independent movies mostly.

Shows: 60 Mins, Shark Tank, Big Bang Theory

Music: Bloc Party, Sigur Ros, M83, Saycet, 30 seconds to mars, teamsleep, deftones, Lenny Kravitz, Led Zeppelin, AFI, chevelle, Hum, Vast, Muse Ambient and Chill out type music and anything else that catches my ears.
The six things I could never do without
curiosity
creativity
imagination
good conversation
physical and mental connection
touch
I spend a lot of time thinking about
One thing I have learned from dating sites such as this one and others in general is that physical attraction makes up about 90% of getting or receiving a message, of course two people have to be physically attracted to each other or in this case a "photo", but the thing that is always in question is what if you met this person waiting in line or on a train, and just a quick simple conversation created a connection that lasted a lifetime, what I'm saying is that many chances are lost on here because of the fact physical attraction is the first thing people notice and nothing more.....

A glance that turned into one of those long lasting stares is something I have forgotten being in this virtual world of online dating, but often try to remember, I guess being on here has its ups and downs just like anything else in life....

my next steps....

Why people are told to think outside the box, think about what would happen if everyone started to think outside the box, there would be nobody thinking inside the box any more, that could create havoc. Maybe thinking inside the box is the new way of thinking and thinking outside the box is like following everyone else. You need to have a medium.

Working and creating a new controversial art project that hopefully I can put into an art show one day.

Why people are still on facebook and why they continue to post about there where abouts on a minute to minute basis.

Why OKC will send me a match of someone who hasnt signed onto this site in months. Why nearly 1 in 2 on OKC are from the Brooklyn area. Why half of the people from Brooklyn have pictures of them wearing a fake moustache...is that a trend just like everything else or?

Why people spend real money on virtual goods and ways to make online dating a bit different than what it is today.

Tend to think about trends and why people follow them and then look back years later and laugh at themselves....

I don't watch much TV to begin with, but I do find it very amusing how many people here don't own a single TV. I guess its the new trend!

I have noticed some people put these disclaimers on the bottom their profile, you know so you don't take their written profile and pictures and make them your own. I say if they are using your pictures and words you should be proud. More power to you....

Does law of attraction really exist.....
Does it?
On a typical Friday night I am
After a busy week I am sometimes in the city, sometimes out wherever the night goes doing some form of entertainment, usually working on some art, other than that the usual.
You should message me if
If you happened to come across my profile and find something interesting and can relate to it.
You can teach me things I don't already know...
You are unique in a very cool sort of way! A way that can have me thinking for hours and maybe a day or two after we first part on our first date.
You can make me think...
my profile sounds like the other 189,343 profiles you have come across, if that's the case I will be sure to quickly make some changes to it so it doesn't sound too repetitive. And yes I have been told that this is a lengthy profile, doesn't that show just a glimpse of how much substance I have...most women read profiles so i have to keep it somewhat entertaining....wouldn't you agree?

I know that the most important relationship I'll ever have is with someone I haven't met yet.

Thanks
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