So here it is, me, here for all to see... So to speak. About me... Where to start... I am a "nerd/geek", honest, stable, employed, simple in ways and absolutely complex in others, a cuddler, affectionate, and tired of the single life.
Basics: I am 5'11", blue eyes, don't smoke or do drugs, have no kids, and hardly ever drink alcohol. I am what some would consider a "bigger guy", to the point where I have a root beer belly. I am not horribly obese nor am I horribly out of shape. I do have muscles, just not the rippling biceps that can bench 400lbs. I guess I am an "average Joe" when it comes to body type, if that makes sense.
As I said before, I am a geek/nerd. No, not the pocket protector kind. I play video games, watch cartoons, play Magic. That is about it. I don't really follow sports. Will watch a baseball game or two. Played the sport for 5 years.
Work life: I am employed, full time. Been there for 6 years, and been encouraged to move up in the company. So they don't want me leaving and don't plan on getting rid of me.
Social life: not much of one at the moment. As mentioned before, I don't drink or do any kind of drugs. I don't like bars or night clubs due to the other drunken people that tend to frequently visit them, and the fact that alcohol is the preferred beverage they like to serve. I am not a "partier" in any respect. I like smaller groups over large crowds, I would prefer a quieter evening with my girl, rather than going to a loud chaotic event. So a night at home with dinner and cuddling while watching a movie is very appealing to me. I like to go out to dinner or stay in. Renting a movie or going to a theater makes no difference to me, as long as we don't end up somewhere with drunken idiots trying to pick a fight with the guy next to them.
I am an affectionate person. I like to cuddle, hold hands, PDA's, hugs, giving little presents, etc. That is just the kind of person I am, I like the closeness. I do respect that there are times when some space is needed, and will let there be space.
My complexities: I like cartoons. Why? That is a long and complicated answer. I guess you can think of it this way; when you are a kid, you believe that anything is possible, and your universe is only limited by your imagination. But as you learn and grow, your perception of the world becomes smaller, your universe becomes smaller, the realm of possibilities gets smaller. In turn your imagination becomes less of a reality. Cartoons are a way for me to go back to that time where my universe was full of ideas of being able to fly without an airplane, walk on air until I looked down, or walk into a picture of a tunnel that is painted on a rock face. So watching cartoons and anime is a way for me to still have an active imagination, and to be a kid again.
So take a seat, relax, look around, and enjoy what is currently my profile.
I am cute, sweet, and adorable
Future plans: eventually I am going to head back to school and get my bachelors degree. Had to take a forced break from things. Life kinda happened, stuff came up, and my advisors decided to give me some bad advise on classes. It ended up being a bad time for me to try to take classes, to try and become a teacher. So currently I am paying off bills and gonna try and make a fresh start.
I tend to win tickle wars. I have been told I make for a good pillow, table, chair, coat rack, pack mule, body pillow, sun shade, kitty, math tutor, smart ass, and other random inanimate objects. Haven't had any complaints over any foot rubs I have given... Other than trying to tickle. I can't help that I am playful.
Movies: most of the "hero" movies like Iron Man, Punisher, Mask of Zorro, etc. Also have to throw in Serenity, The Prestige, Lilo and Stitch, the Star Wars series, and Pirates series.
Music: Nickelback, Skillet, Rob Thomas, Darren Hayes, The Calling, Lifehouse, Linkin Park, Evanescence, Stephen Lynch, Paramore, among many others.
TV shows: CSI, House, Castle, Battlestar Galactica, Stargate, Dr Who, Burn Notice, Buffy, Angel, Charmed, The IT Crowd, X-Men the animated series, Bleach, Death Note, Hellsing, Hell Girl, Batman the Animated Series, Tsubasa, most Gundam series, Full Metal Alchemist, Afro Samurai, Farscape, Naruto, Naruto Shippuden, Family Guy, Futurama, Firefly, The Pretender, Heros, Sliders, Highlander, and the list goes on.
Food: Buffalo wings, pizza, tacos, but nothing can really beat home made foods; chicken burritos, chili, Fettucini Alfredo
Cell phone; life line to friends and family
Love; we all need it
Friends; life wouldn't be fun without them
Car; need to see people, go to work, etc
Hope and inner strength; everyone needs to have a reason to get up every morning, and the courage to face the world.
Then there are the less wanted things, like work, bills, and the lack of a social life I have.
Sadly 3 out of 4 Fridays I am at work. My work schedule is on a 4 week rotation. So only 1 Friday per rotation.
When in a relationship, and if it gets to the point of becoming more physical, I have a weakness for short skirts. I can't help the fact that it turns me on.
What I am looking for: Someone who doesn't smoke or do drugs, doesn't have kids (optional), has a preference to like cats over dogs, enjoys a bit of romance, likes to cuddle. I don't want a "twig", in the sense that I am a big guy, and I don't want to break her. I want a girl that is more than just skin and bones. And as of late, I have been wanting to find someone who is 100% single. Over this past year, I have met 3 different girls, and all 3 of them have had some kind of issue with an ex that ruined whatever relationship I had with the girl. So it may sound like a simple thing, but for some reason it has been a tall order.
I would like to find a fellow nerd/geek that is just as or more nerdy/geeky than I am. Someone who likes to get affection as well as give it. A girl that is comfortable with who she is and the way she looks, without having to consult a fashion magazine, or see what the latest trend is. Not a requirement for her to be nerdy, but it would be nice.
Looks; I like cute and sweet girls, height doesn't matter too much, I have fallen for girls with all colors of eyes and hair (including colors of hair that are not natural colors by any means), I like long haired girls or at least enough that it can be put in a tail of sorts. For me, personality speaks more than looks.
I am not looking for a one night stand by any means, nor am I the kind of person to even try it. If I am going to "giggidy giggidy" with a girl, I kinda want to know a bit about them first. I am not one of the many Glen Quagmires in the world, thank you.
It is a dating website people. Don't be afraid to meet someone, that could potentially be the "one". One more thing, if you are the kind of person that does the "winking/messaging" first, I will be most inclined to sending a reply.