33 Oslo, Norway
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My self-summary
In open relationships with
NorthernLights and
bisexual or heteroflexible,
relationship anarchist,
looking for friendly connections with drama-free, open, honest people along the lines of kos, netflixing, games, outdooring & sexy stuff!


Sex-positive, explicit consensualist.

I try to avoid loud noise.

Living in Oslo and planning on staying here,
inhabiting a tiny studio,
enjoying a sauna.

Preoccupied with research,
spending solid time in the office,
being engaged in lots of volunteer-organisations,
tinkering (robots, computers),
contemplating life,
indulging in silence.

Since Myers-Briggs personality type seems to be a thing here: INFJ
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a researcher

Also: this one made me giggle:
I’m really good at
Bathing with Lush Bath Bombs ;)
The first things people usually notice about me
My haircut and colourful dresses? My colours don't always match ;)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
fav. Star Trek species: The Borg
fav. The X-Files episode: The Circus (2/20)
fav. fantasy novel character: Roland Deschain of Gilead
fav. FPS weapon: pipe wrench
fav. season: November
The six things I could never do without
Something to wash my face with,
Skin care,
The Sea,
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why on earth I cannot link the profiles of my two partners with the OKC 'open relationship' function and why there is no polyamory option either. This sucks. Sad monkey :(

How to live a minimalist life,
philosophy of science & philology,
ethics & non-violent communication,
sexuality and interpersonal relationships.
On a typical Friday night I am
Not feeling very well due to withdrawal symptoms and side effects of medication. Fridays are not much fun…

I would like to spend more time outside, go hiking, skiing and explore the greater Oslo area & the North, however, I don't like to "go out", esp. when alcohol or too many people are involved.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I do not own a green umbrella ;)
You should message me if
You want to! It's as simple as that :)


You know a decent coffee place (kafé) in the city that might also serve vegane kaker, kjeks eller brød.

You're interested in sharing experiences and/or discussing non-monogamous open relationships as a 30+ person.

You're a friendly, balanced, sober person or couple or pair of friends (of any sex or gender) who likes kos (sofa, movie/videogame, cuddles), massages, intimacy.

Cats are a plus!