31Wilmington, United States
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My self-summary
I am Massachusetts born and raised, and would not want to live anywhere else. I’m a Red Sox fan and try to see games as much as possible, as well as the Celtics or the Bruins. But I also like to work out; but I’ll admit that 20 years of soccer and the training I go through for the military has taken the fun out of it!

I learn visually, and remember a lot of trivia and random facts – so Jeopardy may be in my future! If there is a category for beer, I could probably ace it – lately I have been interested in trying all the uncommon and obscure beers of the world. I also recently made my own beer, a dunkelweizen, and can't wait to make more. Even more recently I have begun to try and learn about different kinds of wine. Having someone to try them with would be awesome.

My ideal match shares some of the same interests, and loves to go out and have fun. She is intelligent and has goals of her own, and she isn't afraid to work to attain them. She has a great sense of humor, and sarcasm is a plus. She considers family and friendships to be valuable assets, and she is affectionate and warm. I have no notions of her appearance, but she has an awesome smile and eyes that reflect her personality. She loves not only nights out, but also nights in – a movie and a shared couch is fine!

I'm an avid follower of soccer, especially European soccer so a girl that is also a fan would be a dream come true. If that's you please message me ASAP!
What I’m doing with my life
At the moment I'm a senior teller/CSR at a bank. I also just got out of the Army Reserve after six years. I just passed all my tests and got my EMT license so I'll be looking around trying to find work on an ambulance! Eventually I want to be a firefighter though. Lately I've been into trying new food and beers. I've also been trying to cook more, mostly with the grill.
I’m really good at
I'm really good at listening. I am always there, ready to help any of my friends if they have a problem or even if they're just bored and wanna talk.

For some reason, though I'm glad, I get along really well with little kids. Kids that are usually shy around new people seem to warm up to me rather quickly. This is great because kids are awesome and it's good to be a kid sometimes.

I'm also not easily embarrassed so I tend to do silly or crazy things to make people laugh. But don't worry, I know when it's time to put my serious hat on.

I also have a really good memory, usually very random things and random trivia.
The first things people usually notice about me
I get told several times a day that I bear a striking resemblance to Brad Pitt except most people say I'm slightly better looking.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Movies: Mostly comedies, especially anything with Will Ferrell. I also like war movies like Black Hawk Down, We Were Soldiers, Tears of the Sun, and Hart's War to name a few. To be honest though I'm pretty much down for anything.

TV: Family Guy, South Park, NCIS, NCIS: Los Angeles, Law and Order: SVU, Scrubs, Dexter, The Simpsons, American Dad, The League are some of my favorites.

Music: I like mostly rock but I have no problem listening to anything. I love going to shows too.

Food: My favorite's are Italian, Chinese/Japanese, Indian, Thai, Mexican and I have a favorite place to go for each one of these. I'm also always looks for new foods and restaurants to try and having someone to share it with would be great.

Books: Honestly, I'm not much of a reader but when I do I like books by Stephen E. Ambrose like Citizen Soldiers and Band of Brothers. Theodor Geisel is pretty awesome too.
Six things I could never do without
1. Friends because I would be completely lost without them.

2. My phone because without it I would feel naked. I can't go anywhere without my phone.

3. Food because I love to eat.

4. Family because I wouldn't be where I am today without them.

5. Oxygen because I guess I need to breathe, although, in my opinion, breathing is so overrated.

6. Music because I love music. When I'm stressed music is usually where I turn for help.

7. More than 6 things. Studies have shown (studies that I may or may not have just made up. I made them up.) that people need between 11-16 things.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I spend alot of time thinking about life, my life in particular and what the future has in store for me. I also think about the things I wanna do and accomplish.
On a typical Friday night I am
It depends. Sometimes I have to work on saturdays so I'll stay in and chill. other times I'm out with friends doing something fun like go to the movies and get dinner, or go to a bar and do pub trivia.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I own a full body spandex tuxedo. And I was Tinkerbell for Halloween a couple years ago. I also it's bought a hat that looks like a minion from Despicable Me.
You should message me if
-You think we have stuff in common and you think we'd get along.
-You can teach me something new.
-You wanna talk.
-You want to.

I also want to be clear: I'm looking for an actual relationship. Not just friends or anything like that. Obviously just casual hanging out a first is perfectly ok and if after a few dates I end up with a new friend that's great too but I'm 28 now and I'm tired of the single life so my goal is to end up in a relationship. So if you're looking for the same thing send me a message!!
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