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My self-summary

Infidelity and the future of relationships. Interesting topic and I suspect there might be a few interested who would like to know more about the modern day relationship.

The beginning of my profile begins here, in 2015: I've spent a lot of time searching the meaning of life. Got my Psych degree at UC Berkeley in 77, and worked in the family beauty business since I was 7. I know women, and I'm really good with people. My youngest daughter is in college and I am excited about the new possibilities in life. It's Thanksgiving weekend, and I'm thinking about the book I'd like to finish writing. I fantasize about remodeling rooms in my home, just for fun. I'm in the quilting business where most of my audience are women. My priority is business and family right now.

9/2016 Update: I finished and published Supercharge Your Success. Remodeled my bathrooms and kitchen partially, with improvements on my wish list. My family is thriving. Business plans are on schedule. I think my life is pretty darn perfect. What would make it even better? Finding that right partner who can, inspire, intrigue and fascinate me with his view of life. I'd love a partner to grow with. I have to admit to being an out of the box kind of girl, but conservative enough to fit into most settings if need be. My mind and heart is open to that perfect match. You are out there!

Offer: I have experience as an astrologer and I can tell if there is chemistry in a relationship. Let me give you a shortcut to a potential relationship that you are curious about. Chemistry between two people is real. It's either present or not. It can be good, great, or even explosive. Message me if you want to know more.


on 9/10/2016 I posted updates on my site clarifying who I was interested in meeting. Within 30 min. I met the man who became the love of my life. It's been over 8 months that we have been growing more and more in love with each other. The chemistry came through on the pages of his profile and through our texts. I knew I liked him even before we spoke on the phone or met in person. It was right from the beginning, but I didn't know for sure until now. I am officially off the dating site, but I choose not to shut down my profile completely because I hope that the hard work I put into writing my profile might be useful to me in the future somehow. Heck, it might even be useful to you.

I have been on and off this site for I guess 7-8 year? My son met his wife on OKCupid. They now have a son. I was doubtful that I could meet someone who I could connect with deeply, but I must say, finding my guy fulfilled my wishes and exceeding my expectations.

Best of Luck to you who found my page and read this far. I can tell you, the possibility of finding the love of your life is real, for me. Good Luck in finding her!
What I’m doing with my life
I'm super busy traveling for my business. My family is important to me, so I make time to catch up with my adult kids as I can. I am pretty content with my life right now. But I won't rule out that my soul mate is looking for me, and I have to send him a signal to find me. :p! Will he find me on Okc? who knows? I'm heading to Australia and New Zealand on New Years for 3 weeks. Then back to work. I am a product designer in the creative arts industry. I sell my products nationally. Since my youngest started college, I'm traveling even more.

9/2016 Things move fast! My life is full. The only thing that could make it better is to share it with a partner who has his own successful career, or retired, with his own passions, financially stable, has his own home, available, and we have great chemistry together. I have a great life already. I love my freedom and independence. But, it's possible that there's room in my life for the perfect partner to share it with. Right now, I have a lover who I enjoy very much, but he's already committed to a 37 year marriage. It wouldn't be right for him to walk away from his tribe. For my own sake, I have to open myself up to the possibility that there is something better for me out there. I'm giving myself the chance to see, by sending out my message.
I’m really good at
Allowing. I believe that you have free will to live your life as you choose. As do I. It would be nice to attract an easy relationship that naturally fits.
Update: it's pretty cool to look back at what I wrote 2 - 4 years ago. I haven't worked very hard at meeting the one on Okc. My son met his wife on Okc. Good things are possible.
The first things people usually notice about me
Being grounded, being normal. The most frequent comment about me is: "you're amazing!" That's too much to live up to. I live for myself. It's my responsibility to know what makes me happy. Some of my friends don't know how I manage my life as I do. I get more done than most people I know.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
The Ringing Cedars Series. Argentine Tango, Modern Family, Big Bang, Planet Earth, food made with love. Good quality food, with good quality ingredients. I love musical theater. I helped a lot with my daughter's musical theater programs and would like to enjoy more theater, ballet and live events with someone who enjoys it as much as I do. Loved Wicked.
Six things I could never do without
My divine connection
Love of my kids
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How does it get better?
What are the possibilities that ______can show up in my life?
What new amazing person will I meet?
What new amazing adventure is in store for me today?
What kind of man would fit into my busy life?
How do I have a life full of ease and joy?
What if I could play more and work less?
Do I really want to work less? Is it really work?
On a typical Friday night I am
Nothing feels typical, but I can be cozy in my own nest.
I'd enjoy a good movie and good food with a friend.
Sports never makes it to the top of the list, ever! Sorry boys, if sports is important and you want company, I am not the one.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I meditate every morning. I don't begin my day until I'm grounded and ready to play.
You should message me if
You are fit. Age is just a number. You are a happy positive person. You are looking to attract authentic relationships. You understand that we are constantly growing and changing. You are grounded, kind, considerate, smart, wise, sweet, loving, adoring, adorable, funny, compassionate, active, successful, caring and thoughtful. You know you are here to make a difference in this world and you're doing it. You are interested in relationships that compliment each other's lives. You don't need a relationship to fulfill you. It's not a NEED. You are playfully open to more love and joy to your already happy existence. If this is not you, and you want to be all that, I am a trained life coach, and I can help you realize that kind of life. It's a fulfilling journey. I have helped many realize their full potential. Message me if you'd like to meet me. Life is good! I won't know if you are interested if you don't message me. I haven't invested in any extra features, because I am not consistently on okcupid. I think it's a great site for what ever you are looking for.
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