36Mishawaka, United States
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My self-summary
I'm looking for something intense, long term, real dedication. I'm not interested in a casual thing, and would not consider casual sex (just putting that out there hoping to save some annoyance). I'm a little crazy, but in an eccentric fun way. I have spinal nerve damage among other things. I'm not in a wheelchair, I don't let it limit me a lot. I have a 16 year old son, he does not live with me.
What I’m doing with my life
I prefer to spend time making crafts, and playing games (cards, wii, online computer games) with my friends, painting, reading, or walking. I consider myself a little bit of a gamer girl and geek. I am known to play Vampire the Masquerade LARP, D&D, and others but most of my play time is spent on World of Warcraft.

I enjoy meaningful conversations. I like helping friends discover new lines of thinking they hadn't seen before. I love seeing the beauty in the world, and love sharing that beauty with others.
I’m really good at
I would like to think I'm good at baking, and the crafts I do. I adore horses and used to be really good with them.
The first things people usually notice about me
I suffer from a medical condition that causes metabolism issues. Finding the right medication has helped some, and I am looking for someone who might join me in some healthy activities such as walking, biking, swimming, and so on.

I have a unique style that changes with my mood. Everything from goth to country girl. I'll probably never settle into one thing, there's too much in the world to explore!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My favorite book "Queen's Own" by Mercedes Lackey which is fantasy. I also like romance novels, fantasy, and sci-fi.

I like such a wide variety but I guess my favorite movies... Star Wars, Serenity, Fifth Element, The Dark Knight, Pirates of the Caribbean, Princess Mononoke, Hunger Games, even suicide squad, and probably a dozen more at least.

I watch a LOT of netflix... as for tv shows I love Doctor Who, Bones, House, Star Trek (all), Firefly, Xena, and so many more.

I LOVE music. I think it is a great form of expression; two of my favorite bands are Blackmore's Night and Nightwish. I listen to such an extremely wide variety. Anything from classical, country, classic rock, metal.... not much rap or religious though.
Six things I could never do without
Six things tops on my list include my family (especially my son), the fall season, singing, music, a computer, and friends to help me fix it when it revolts due to my excessive multitasking habits.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I'm thinking a lot about and searching for something that brings back some spark of intensity to my life.

I spend a lot of time thinking about how the world tends to balance. There cannot be beauty without there first being something ugly so we can see the difference. Even in hard times I am always finding things to appreciate about this world.

Integrity is also something that often comes up with me as a topic. I am a fiercely honest and loyal person. I simply won't play games, I insist that being straight forward about things even when it's inconvenient or hurts. It is the only way to keep any inner peace. I promote that concept to all my friends. It's not always immediately appreciated, but there is freedom in not harboring things.
On a typical Friday night I am
On a typical Friday night, I'm usually playing WoW online, but would love to get out more often! Seriously I get so bored!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm a little dark. It's my comfort zone. I need someone not to pull me out of that, but who compliments that. Who can laugh at both muy intentional silliness, but also enjoy my more edgy moments too. Weak, passive, submissive personalities just don't tend to work out with me. I have a unique underlying submissive personality myself, my ideal match is a more dominate type i suppose.
You should message me if
You should message me if you have similar interests to mine, or I have piqued your interest. I won't respond to messages revolving around sex (too many guys looking for "action") I'd welcome all other conversations!

I hope to chat with you soon :)
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