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My self-summary
I'm a feminist. If terms like "women's rights," "reducing the wage gap," and "pro-choice" aren't vaguely interesting to you, leave now.

Still here? Great!

Depending on what day of the week it is, I identify as queer or pansexual. The latter meaning I am sexually attracted to pans, particularly Calphalon stainless or ceramic. Just kidding! I like everyone, provided they are at least 1/2(My age)+7 years old and the same in reverse for me.

I'm a big fan of Dungeons and Dragons, Magic: the Gathering and video games that don't involve zombies. I enjoy programming, sudoku and occasionally shoot a bow and arrow. I LOVE to SCUBA dive, I'd do it way more if I could find a consistent dive buddy. I like to think I am a craftsy person, I own more tools than any reasonable apartment-dweller ought to. I think the art and science of making your own things is highly undervalued.

Fun and enjoyment are very important to me. Life's too short to not pursue pleasure whenever and wherever possible. I tend to avoid stressing about situations where I have no control over the outcome. I'm a pretty chill person, and I gravitate to other people who don't indulge in hysterics.

Random note of the moment:

Right now I am looking for fun, friendly people for hangouts and adventures.
What I’m doing with my life
I am VERY NEARLY ALMOST graduated from college! I'm working on my organization and money skills, and continuously trying to re-examine my personal values. The work is never done!

Occasionally hanging out with ba1oo , and Nerd_punk (who is honestly one of the most entertaining people I've ever met!)

I spend a lot of time on my computer with a cat in my lap.
I’m really good at
Learning new things, parallel parking, problem-solving, being available to help out with anything. Asking for help when I don't know what the hell I'm doing.

I'm an idea person. I love talking to people about their passions and inspiring/being inspired by the stuff we come up with.

I am a planner. If we need to get something done, go somewhere or come up with something, I will draft you the blueprint to awesome.
The first things people usually notice about me
I am supremely mischief.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like lots of these things, but I am listing only my favorites for the sake of brevity.

Authors/Books: Andre Norton, The Wheel of Time, Kushiel's Dart (Only the first book, really), George R. Martin, L.E. Modesitt, Ursula K. LeGuin

Movies: Kinky Boots, Circumstance, Black Swan, Spirited Away, Prometheus, Aliens, Perfect Blue

Shows: Coupling, Xena: Warrior Princess, Thundercats, Sherlock, The Golden Girls

Podcasts: Welcome to Night Vale

Music: Lacuna Coil, AFI, Nightwish, Lady Gaga, Broken Iris, Heart, Pat Benatar, She Wants Revenge

Food: Real (not instant!) ramen, udon, curry, waffles, tiramisu, vegetarian lasagna, walnut-encrusted salmon, polenta

Games: Valkyrie Profile, Armored Core, Diablo, Uplink, NetHack, Final Fantasy Tactics, Tactics Ogre, Dungeons & Dragons, Magic: the Gathering, Cards Against Humanity, Super Mario World, Mario64, Starfox 64, Secret of Mana, EVE Online, League of Legends, Path of Exile, The Stanley Parable, Ingress
Six things I could never do without
Computers, big and small

A sense of identity and self worth

My car, or similarly unrestricted local transportation

Games of all sorts. I am not the world's biggest gamer, and I'm not particularly competitive, but I highly enjoy playing games, video or otherwise. The quickest way to my heart is most likely a combination of delicious food (see above) and bonding through games.

Awesome friends.

Delicious, delicious food. I LOVE going out to dinner, it's my big vice. If you make me dinner, particularly something I like, I will probably be your friend forever at a minimum.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Projects I should be working on, my career, self-improvement, irritatingly bigoted things that people say and how I should educate them so they NEVER SAY STUPID THINGS AGAIN.

I also find myself thinking about how things are made, who makes them, what their impact on the environment is and where they come from.

How to save the weak from the strong.
On a typical Friday night I am
Relaxing after the long week. Typically this includes laundry, doing other chores, vegging out and surfing the intertubes.

In other words, you should message/call me so we can do something fun.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have the unshakable feeling that Dr.Who fans are geekier than me, even if that's not actually the case.
You should message me if
You should message me if you want someone to indulge geeky hobbies or go off on an adventure with.

You should message me if you love to drink tea.

You should message me if you have constructive criticism of my profile.

You should massage me if I have a back ache.

Absolutely do not message me if: you just want sex without friendship or a one-time only thing. Or if you're not okay with me being in an open relationship. Or if you're not willing to respect the established rules of my relationship.

I strive to be friendly, and I will almost always respond to messages sent to me. So don't be shy!
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