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My self-summary
Update: im currently in a relationship but we are looking for a second girl to party with, (and rent my second bedroom! need a roomate) i will post a few pics of her/us together, message me if youd like to meet us for drinks etc...

hi, my names steve, i play guitar, bass, and sing/vocals. shoot pool, drink a few beers on weekends, watch movies, hang out and have fun. i am an independant contractor and i have been installing hurricane shutters with the same company for 9 years. i keep very busy during the week. family moved to cape coral in 87, lived in myrtle beach SC for 6 months in 99.

i consider myself an artist & a comedian, ... i like to think i know how it works (INTP/ INTJ), i could be wrong, such is life... goals and aspirations, hmmm... well i guess for my band(s) to be very successful and make enough money to quit working construction during the day, buy or build a duplex near the highway and convert it into my personal music studio/ home/ fun house...

what makes me tick eh? well, i like to have fun, mostly go out to eat with the crew, drink some drinks, tell stories and laugh a lot. when not putting food in my face i like to see a few bands play, or see a movie, go to a party, whatever.

politically im a constitutionalist, i hate bankers, i have some liberal views, some conservative views, consider myself a moderate i guess, or was that a radical? i plead the fifth! i dont like the two mainstream parties, i tip my hat to the late hunter s thompson, abbie hoffman, bill hicks, and george carlin.

check this out: im a scorpio (w/ moon in sagitarius)and in the chinese zodiac im a dragon.... though im not into astrology, lately ive been getting into what scorpio means for me, and its all true, so good and bad, im a scorpio, im passionate and attached to my music, my art, everything i get my hands on (that includes you!), ill have to read back up on the dragon... BRB, o wow, yea dragon and scorpio describes me perfectly... im also a 12 oclock fire sign on the synthesizer

im not "athletic" but i am strong, i work construction and lift heavy stuff all day (i work very hard in the heat), and im not into sports except boxing and MMA, i also took a few various martial arts classes (kem-po, jeet-kun-do, muay-tai) around my high school years and well, i got your back...
What I’m doing with my life
playing in bands, recording music, writing books, being awesome because that's the only option




i recently completed my first book, The Aezeonomicon: How Modern Society Has Gone Completely Sideways... so i'm an author now too, available on amazon!

Aezeonomicon plug

the aezeonomicon
I’m really good at
playing bass and guitar, singing, screaming, drawing, making ppl laugh, multitasking, judging culinary skill, 4 player chess
The first things people usually notice about me
i look metal, usually scare the dull ppl away so thats good, once people get to know me they usually see im thoughtful, witty, and deep (very polite and considerate, maybe even to a fault)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
books: Nietzsche, Dawkins, Hitchens, Harris, Dennet, Thompson, Redbeard, Sun Tsu, LaVey, Burgess, Bradbury, Orwell, Huxley, Blake, Pagels, Ehrman, Chomsky

some movies that are cult for me: fear and loathing, a clockwork orange, easy rider, star wars (duh), the big lebowski, o brother where art thou, the godfather, ...

music again: i love metal, classic rock, (im made of black and death metal) classical music, symphonic, doooom, ambient, industrial, ebm, trip/trance, progressive and/or dark types of rock and metal, 70's- 80's- 90's+ /rock/metal,

Blut Aus Nord, Devin Townsend, Emperor/Ihsahn, Burzum, Pink Floyd, Supertramp, Tiamat, Hypocrisy, Skinny Puppy, NIN, Wumpscut, Akercocke, Enslaved, Neil Young, Hate Eternal, Endvra, (old) Danzig/Samhain, Fen, Austere, Katatonia, Tool/APC, Kyuss/QotSA/Them Crooked Vultures, Darkthrone, Mayhem, Iron Maiden/Bruce Dikcinson, AIC/Jerry Cantrell, Bethlehem, King Diamond/Mercyful Fate, (old) Opeth, Type-O-Neg, WOODS OF YPRES, Drudkh, Wolves in the Throne Room, Agalloch, Deathspell Omega, Alcest, Dodheimsgard, and Ulver, etc...

i like basically anything and everything from the (later half of the...) 60s, 70s, mostly 80s, everything good from those three decades before the term "pop-music" began to take on its more current meaning...

i dislike (read vehemently HATE): dub-step or whatever the fuck its called, emo/screamo, hardcore, pop, nu rock, rap rock, rap, hip hop, booty club, & pop country. cry about it...

food: yes please
Six things I could never do without
"things" aside from "people".... my guitars/basses, my books, my Cds, computer/stereo, i guess food and water, housing, utilities, lol
I spend a lot of time thinking about
hmmm... well, truthfully creating new guitar riffs is high on the list, old cars, minor bs like work, money, etc
On a typical Friday night I am
band practice and then going to the bar to get food and a beer or two
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
i can be nervous on dates i guess (im a good listener)
You should message me if
most of the time its just hanging out somewhere, be it a concert, a bar, a restaurant, movies, whatever... the main thing is that we talk, i wanna talk about who you are and who i think i am. ill have to judge it from there cause sometimes girls dont like to talk about those kinds of things, so we can talk about whatever you want, i can be a little nervous at first, esp on a "date" date... lets just hang out and talk, thats about it, and also, have you ever been to the castle in ybor city tampa? i love that place!

okay so theres no "you" section so ill drop it here: im most interested in your intelligence and depth. i want a conversationalist, and an explorer. of course im into your looks as well, but i dont expect to seduce any supermodels, im certainly no mr universe... a few extra lbs is great, i actually prefer a little extra... but yea, intelligence is sexy.. sexiest imho.. i would like a girl who wont get bored or confused with me cause well, i know i can seem like a boring windbag at times.... back to you:

message me if you fit the description (or even if you dont): the goth/metal/biker girl, i like the librarian/nurse/nun thing (whoops TMI!) but whatever is cool, (im also huge into some cosplay) im not picky, really, ha... like i was saying depth, i want your mind, i want conversation, i want... coffee yea! but importantly, you be you and i will be me, and im not going to try to change or critique you, ok ttyl...

though id like to list a few minor turn offs/annoyances: bad spelling/grammar, kissy face/duck face pics, gangster hands, long walks on the beach, and claiming you "listen to all kinds of music" (that usually is b.s. because most of the ppl who claim this turn out to have a very limited scope of musical interests, as soon as you pry a little you find out they listen to 1 or 2 radio stations worth of top 40)
The two of us